My mum is always complaining about being stuck in the house and I understand that it's hard because of her medical problems. If any one does any thing wrong I get the blame my house looks like a show room but she thinks it's dirty. I can't go out as she will cause an argument I'm 23 and feel like I'm 13 me and my boyfriend only argue about her. She always says she can't cope and that I'm lazy even though I pay the bills do shipping and does all the jobs out side the house I also work full time on a very low wage due to training and she doesn't understand I have work to do in the evening some one help I can't cope and getting to the point just to leave her on her own no family will help cause they know what she is like I love her but can't handle the pressure .