Whan I was little my momma told me my daddy was dead! When I turned 13 I came home and found him on my couch. When I was in my late 20"s my daddy told me I was not his child, then I asked him if he would kick me to the curb? I am now 45 and found out through a DNA test who my father is and he is now dead. My mother told me I did not need to know and it was none of my business. How can parents treat kids this way and expect us not to have bad feelings?

Whan I was little my momma told me my daddy was dead! When I turned 13 I came home and found him on my couch. When I was in my late 20"s my daddy told me I was not his child, then I asked him if he would kick me to the curb? I am now 45 and found out through a DNA test who my father is and he is now dead. My mother told me I did not need to know and it was none of my business. How can parents treat kids this way and expect us not to have bad feelings?

Well... thats because you don't have to pass a test proving you are parent material to have a kid. Personally I think there should be if there was a way to enforce it.

When a person has an affair then gets pregnant and tries to hide it, that is just wrong. Just fess up. This has affected me my whole life. I have lots of medical issues and thank the lord I found out who he was. This man had lots of health issues and thanks to that I was born with them. Now I know why I am very sickly.