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Ryleigh08
Jul 3, 2012, 10:31 AM
My husband cheated when we were engaged and it continued into our marriage. The affair lasted for over a year. At the time he appeared remorseful and vowed to never do it again. Now 4 yrs later with 2 children and I take care of his sickly mother he has yet to give me the emotional support. He feels as though I should trust him and just move on. He hasn't said this to me but his actions say it. Also our intimacy level is so low and it's been this way since we've been married. I fine myself asking for sex more then him, which is only once a month, which is ridiculous for a young married couple. I feel like he has sex with me to keep me quiet. I know he is stressed from everything we have going on but being intimate and giving each other emotional support, I thought would help. I'm now at the point where I have a lot of bitterness towards him, which has built up from the affair and his lack of making me feel wanted. I don't know what else to do, I'm just about at that breaking point. HELP!