Mick0001
Jul 3, 2012, 09:02 AM
Need a help please.
I have separated with wife with two kids for almost two years and meet a new girlfriend of 30 years old whilst I am 45. I dated this girl for two years and suddenly he told me she wants a breakup as I am too demanding in the relationship which of course is NOT the case. I give her everything as I believe I don't won't to make a second mistake.
But even though she told me she wants a breakup, she still calls, txt, whatapps message to me and check my whereabouts. As I like her so much and I don't want to breakup with her and I always responds to her message. A week after she told me about the split, we rang each other and meet at my place for the weekend and we had good sex. After that she still insist she wants a breakup. So, I am unsure what is going around this girl. But to my surprise whilst she stayed at my place the other night I went through her phone and saw pictures of herself which she had send to other guys. I confronted her and she told me that she is allowed to have male friends and send pictures as long as they are not naked. And, I should stop watching over her shoulder as she hates it. And that's what she hates about by always suspecting her of cheating.
I really like her but I am confused now whether to responds to her messages or do the NC rule but is really difficult for me. I suspect she is starting to see other guys as she wants to marry now but I have already promised her that I will marry her. But she is not fully giving me the NOD.
I need help on either I completely ignore her messages or respond with polite and hope one day she changes her mind... Please help... I can't sleep, eat or concentrate anymore and it is now 2 weeks...
I have separated with wife with two kids for almost two years and meet a new girlfriend of 30 years old whilst I am 45. I dated this girl for two years and suddenly he told me she wants a breakup as I am too demanding in the relationship which of course is NOT the case. I give her everything as I believe I don't won't to make a second mistake.
But even though she told me she wants a breakup, she still calls, txt, whatapps message to me and check my whereabouts. As I like her so much and I don't want to breakup with her and I always responds to her message. A week after she told me about the split, we rang each other and meet at my place for the weekend and we had good sex. After that she still insist she wants a breakup. So, I am unsure what is going around this girl. But to my surprise whilst she stayed at my place the other night I went through her phone and saw pictures of herself which she had send to other guys. I confronted her and she told me that she is allowed to have male friends and send pictures as long as they are not naked. And, I should stop watching over her shoulder as she hates it. And that's what she hates about by always suspecting her of cheating.
I really like her but I am confused now whether to responds to her messages or do the NC rule but is really difficult for me. I suspect she is starting to see other guys as she wants to marry now but I have already promised her that I will marry her. But she is not fully giving me the NOD.
I need help on either I completely ignore her messages or respond with polite and hope one day she changes her mind... Please help... I can't sleep, eat or concentrate anymore and it is now 2 weeks...