Me and this guys have been with each other since Nov 3rd. We have been fighting. Now we are living with his mother and a friend of hers. They are controlling me like I can't do this or do that. I'm also 30 weeks pregnant.

I have been talking with family member's of mine I told them I want to go back home to New Jersey and to fight for my daughter Cameron.

If you are pregnant and basically homeless (it is not your home) you can get assistance from a woman's shelter either where you are or where you want to be (New Jersey)

Yes!! Go with family members, and then take care of your baby, all this non needed stress is not good for your child, that is the priority!

Yea but when I want to they want to keep me here and want to get out when they are nt here and his mom is 55 n her friend is 54 I want to get out before the baby is born which is in Sept 8th but I have 5 more weeks till I'm 36 weeks

So leave. What do you mean they are keeping you there? Are you locked in a room? Chained up? They can't keep you there if you don't let them.

So leave. What do you mean they are keeping you there? Are you locked in a room? Chained up? They can't keep you there if you don't let them

They won't let me hang with ne of my friends which are guys and females and they listen to my conversations n

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They won't let me hang with ne of my friends which are guys and females and they listen to my conversations

So this is really that you just want to hang out with people and they make you feel uncomfortable doing so. Ok, I get it. It's just that from your original question, you made it sound like you actually want to get away from the whole situation... now I see it's not as bad as you made it out to be because you just want to hang out with guys.

Or am I wrong?

Want to get away from the whole thing don't need the stress or anything its hurting my family and me that I can do any thing for my daughter cameron

Ok, then it goes back to the fact that you need to leave. You can't tell me that they are holding you there if you really want to go.

As others have said, find family or friends or a shelter and go. All it takes is you to actually do it.

That's the problem they are here when I want to call or anything and if its my boyfriend kid he will want full custody he has no job or anything he playsa game called second life

thats the problem they are here when i wanna call or anything and if its my bf kid he will want full custody he has no job or nething he playsa game called second life

If they're as controlling as you say, watch you, listen to your conversations, I have to ask, how are you posting on the internet without them knowing?

Well, until you stop making excuses, there is nothing anyone can do. We have told you what to do, now the rest is up to you.

Good luck.

If you have access to a computer, which you obviously do, then you can get the help you state that you need in order to leave.

The police are just an email away, if you're really in a bad situation.

You've also been in contact with your family. Why aren't they doing anything to help you?

When is the right center-meter to go in the hospital I am 1 1/12 cm and I'm 34 weeks pregnant

I had my period Sept 16-23 been getting most of the symptoms like bloating sickness headaches cramping no bleeding didn't do a test yet go see the dr Oct 4th

I have to ask, what happened about your previous pregnancy that you spoke about being 34 weeks back at the end of July: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/dilation-687943.html

I had her at 35 weeks and I don't have her now she's in state custody

That being the case your body is likely still adjusting to a normal cycle, unless you have been partaking of unprotected sex ?

I had my period Sept 16-23 got sick still bloated headaches the cramping n

I had my period Sept 16-23 got sick still bloated headaches the cramping n

Your period ended 5 days ago and you think you're pregnant? Do you even know how pregnancy works?

You'll have to wait until your next period is due. If you miss it, then test. But right now it's more likely that you have the flu, and that's why you're having symptoms.

I would ask that you please use birth control. Obviously you're not ready, or fit, to be a mom. So stop risking pregnancy. There are enough unwanted children in the world. :(

There is no need to go to the doctor for a pregnancy test at this point, unless you are wanting to get on birth control. You need to wait till you miss a period, then test.

There is no need to go to the doctor for a pregnancy test at this point, unless you are wanting to get on birth control. You need to wait till you miss a period, then test.


Last I read you were pregnant, trying to get away from your controlling boyfriend and get custody of Cameron (whoever Cameron is), pregnant with the baby who is apparently no longer in your custody.

Did you get away from your boyfriend?

Are all of your children out of your custody?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/some-one-help-me-get-out-controlling-place-where-live-678355.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/how-can-tell-if-im-preg-705608.html

I'm beginning to understand why people try to control you, because you're out of control.

From what you've written here on this thread, you have a daughter named Cameron that you don't have custody of. You had a baby, the one you talk about here, that was also taken away from you. Now you think you're pregnant again.

You really need to get your life in order. There's obviously something seriously wrong with you. You keep having children that you're not fit to care for. Instead of learning from that you continue to have more children.

Get some help. You need it.

How old are YOU??