My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 6 months, and in that amount of time, he has only reached climax twice. What is the matter with him? Is it me? Our sex sessions usually last for about 2 to 2 1/2 hours yet... NOTHING... What is up?

Do you know anything about his earlier experiences? Has this aways been a problem for him and does he even see it as a problem? 2 hours is a long time, maybe a shorter but much more intense session will help you both, man I'd be tired out.

Well, do you not think this is a good thing. Lots of pleasure for you and I am sure he feels good. This is a rarity.

Usually it is the lady complaining that the guy does not last long enough to even make the girl feel good at all.

Just let it go and enjoy the sex.

It is a rarity. At first it was great, but then I get upset because, Im ready to stop and he hasn't came yet so, I feel obligated to continue when the sex really isn't that great... its a never ending cycle of madness. Im about ready just to become selabute.

You really do not have much experience, do you?

Orgasm or the big O. Everybody puts such a emphasis on THE ORGASMS. Just because an orgasm does not happen does not mean it is not great sex.

I know how you feel. My b/f had the same problem when we started to have sex. It bothered me too, I was not sure if there was anything wrong with me, or did he feel good? He told me that he felt good, and after a long time, probably an hour, he got tired, and lost concentration. We figured out the cause though, actually his problem was that before we got together, he had been masturbated a lot. When he was so used to his own hand, he got spoiled... if you know what I mean. So he tried not to masturbate at all, and bingo! Problem is solved. Maybe you should talk to your b/f, and figure it out all together.:)

I know how you feel. My b/f had the same problem when we started to have sex. It bothered me too, I was not sure if there was anything wrong with me, or did he feel good? He told me that he felt good, and after a long time, probably an hour, he got tired, and lost concentration. We figured out the cause though, actually his problem was that before we got together, he had been masturbated a lot. When he was so used to his own hand, he got spoiled....if you know what i mean. So he tried not to masturbate at all, and bingo! Problem is solved. Maybe you should talk to your b/f, and figure it out all together.:)


Omg thanks heaps I know this wasn't my question to start with but I am having the same problem at the moment and you have just given me the answer I think to help him my boyfriend goes for about 1 1/2 hours before he gets tired out and can't continue anymore and I have asked him does he masturbate a lot and he said yes he does so you answer has answered my prays thanks again

This is a problem that I have never had, but it is a problem. If he was able to have orgasims with other women I would be worried. IF not it is probably something in his mind. Take it slow and start from the beginning.