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danzelindestres
Jul 3, 2012, 03:13 AM
I have been seeing a lad for 6 months now and I want a relationship I've told him this and he sys he doesn't and just wants fun . Someone please help am I wasting my time in trying I do everything to please him
JWASKE
Jul 3, 2012, 03:24 AM
The answer is YES. You ARE wasting your time. Take it from a guy, when we say we want "just for fun" it means you won't be the ONLY one we're having fun with.
danzelindestres
Jul 3, 2012, 03:26 AM
Were together 24/7 thou
rocketman11
Jul 3, 2012, 03:37 AM
I have been seeing a lad for 6 months now and i want a relationship ive told him this and he sys he dosent and just wants fun . Someone please help am i wasting my time in trying i do everything to please him
Yes you are wasting your time, if you want a relationship and he doesn't then you can't change his mind.
What do you mean when he says he just wants fun? Does this mean no strings sex? He is either not that into you, or he just doesn't do commitment and doesn't want to be tied down. Either way, if you are having sex with him at the moment he is getting what he wants.
Stop wasting your time trying to please him! You need to find someone who will love, respect and be committed to you. You need to find someone who deserves you because he clearly doesn't. Also find someone who WILL NOT use you like he is.
Stop seeing him, don't be friends, forget about him and move on to a healthy relationship.
Good luck!
danzelindestres
Jul 3, 2012, 03:39 AM
Yes you are wasting your time, if you want a relationship and he doesn't then you can't change his mind.
What do you mean when he says he just wants fun? Does this mean no strings sex? He is either not that into you, or he just doesn't do commitment and doesn't want to be tied down. Either way, if you are having sex with him at the moment he is getting what he wants.
Stop wasting your time trying to please him! You need to find someone who will love, respect and be commited to you. You need to find someone who deserves you because he clearly doesn't. Also find someone who WILL NOT use you like he is.
Stop seeing him, don't be friends, forget about him and move on to a healthy relationship.
Good luck!
Thank you think its time I walked away