bguthery
Jul 2, 2012, 07:18 AM
We feel in love at first sight and we have everything in common and she broke my heart a few times and she broke up with me because she thinks I always argued (not true). Well I did NC and well her family was helping me find out what went wrong and I gave her space but one day she blocked me and when I asked about it she said "I did?" and when I asked her if she really did she just said "im busy gtg". Well I found out like a week after we broke up she added and went on a date with a guy she knew in elementary and now they are dating. Within like 2 days... Is this a rebound? Her aunt told her to message me how she feels about me and she told me she stopped being happy as boyfriend and girlfriend here is the text "(my name), (her aunts name) talked to me and told me to tell u how I was feeling and to be honest with you I still like you as a person but i dont love you like a boyfriend anymore and I do hope one day down the road we can be friends again. Its not me putting up walls its because I was not happy being together as boyfriend and girlfriend. Sorry if this hurts u but i have to be honest with u so you can move on. please try to take care of yourself and stay positive and hopefully after things settle down we can work on a friendship again. I only want you to be happy so please take care of yourself please do not text me again because (her aunt) is taking my phone away for a few days she says I need to take a break from my phone so she will have it. Please respect my feelings. I sent her text back( when she gets it back) saying that I understand and respect her feelings and that I hope down the road maybe we can have our spark come back and try again or just be friends. I let her know that it does hurt to know she doesnt love me anymore but I will always love her. I sent her these emails later that night. because she told our friend that I caused all our arguments and that I put myself first.
first email is in the attachments
I also sent
Look just sorry about that email I know you want space but I also know we can't be friends if we don't come to a neutral ground in our break up. I was hurt and at fault partially because of what I said and the reason I said that I was the only one trying was because I was actively doing something and I didnt see what you were doing to make it better. I tried to send you a song I song and all you said was "would have been better in person" when you didn't want to see me in person... I sent you lyrics and they were ignored. I tried to talk on the phone to work it out and you didn't want to... That's why I felt I was the only one working on it because you were acting really cold and like you hated me. I know that you loved me but I didn't see why you wouldn't work it out with me and it hurt. I know it may be because of your past but I thought you could move past that and work on it when the going got tough. I won't email anymore and I hope you will read my letter with a calm mind and not be angry with it, Good bye for now
With love and care,
(my name)
Do you think that her new relationship is a rebound? She never talked to him before breaking up and never added him before breaking up. Is there any chance I could be with her again? I get the feeling she deeply cares about me still and maybe still has feelings.
first email is in the attachments
I also sent
Look just sorry about that email I know you want space but I also know we can't be friends if we don't come to a neutral ground in our break up. I was hurt and at fault partially because of what I said and the reason I said that I was the only one trying was because I was actively doing something and I didnt see what you were doing to make it better. I tried to send you a song I song and all you said was "would have been better in person" when you didn't want to see me in person... I sent you lyrics and they were ignored. I tried to talk on the phone to work it out and you didn't want to... That's why I felt I was the only one working on it because you were acting really cold and like you hated me. I know that you loved me but I didn't see why you wouldn't work it out with me and it hurt. I know it may be because of your past but I thought you could move past that and work on it when the going got tough. I won't email anymore and I hope you will read my letter with a calm mind and not be angry with it, Good bye for now
With love and care,
(my name)
Do you think that her new relationship is a rebound? She never talked to him before breaking up and never added him before breaking up. Is there any chance I could be with her again? I get the feeling she deeply cares about me still and maybe still has feelings.