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Shadow179
Jul 1, 2012, 01:13 AM
am currently 15 year old Male, my name is Dakota and I live with my Mother and my Brother. We just left my step dad and made a new living in a town that will remain nameless for safety rights. We rented an apartment and have been so-so fine since, we've been tight on cash until my Dad pays Child Support which helps out a lot. My Mom's sister is a mentally incapable being. She kept on begging and begging to move in with us. My mom finally broke and let her move in. I had 5 days to cope with this news and tried to work out the variables.

IF YOU WANT TO SKIP TO THE MAIN POINT I HAVE YOU READING JUST SKIP TO THE LARGE TEXT FAR BELOW.

CON
1. We live in a 3 bedroom apartment with 1 kitchen and 2 bathrooms.

2. My brother is going to college in October.

3. My Aunt would be staying in the Living room.

PRO
1. She is taking of half the rent allowing my mother to have a little more spare cash to provide me and my broter with if needed.

2. My mother doesn't like being in a town and want to move out to the bush, oppostie to how my Aunt feels, so she will likely take over the apartment and then my Mother, Brother and I wll be alone again, and in silence.


These three are my main problems.

1 and 2 essentially fit together but read me out.

Me and my brother are what most people think of 2 brothers. Love each other and do a lot together, but instead of regular brothers. Me and mine are anti-social in most crowds. We are a classic gaming nerd. We play Magic and play games together. Now usually since it's a family member I wouldn't care, but me and my brother feel uncomfortable with our aunt taking the living room which is where we would usually do all this.

Sure, there is a some-what simple solution to these problems, and that is to re-locate, but we we quite comfortable downstairs in the kitchen playing cards and playing games in the living room on comfortable furnature.

___THIS IS THE REASON I HAVE YOU READING RIGHT NOW___

My MAIN problem... For some reason I have a dislike towards my Aunt. I'm not sure if it's that I think she will take away mine and my brothers peace or if I think the her mental disabillity will constantlymake her be to stubborn to take care of herself and constantly have my brother and I move heaven and hell to make her happy.

Any suggestions an to why I'm suddenly mad?

J_9
Jul 1, 2012, 02:20 AM
Is there any reason why you and your brother can't share a room so that your aunt has her own room and you still have your gaming space?