So my wife takes birth control because her periods are irregular and now they are pretty regular, but she missed the first 2 days of her new month supply of pills (June 18th, 19th) BUT she got caught up. Her period was on the 17th and we did stuff on the 19th( or the 20th (I can't remember which day we did stuff) and that was 2-3 days after she got her period, we used a condom, but it was reused. (I KNOW it is gross, I KNOW it wasn't the best thing to do, but she was on and it was late at night, I was tired from work so I washed it out with water and used it and it DID NOT break, I wasn't on and just wanted it to be over with so don't give me any hate for that so keep your smart a** comments to yourself) I also DID NOT go inside her at all but water came out the bottom of the condom because I washed it, but I'm pretty sure it didn't go near her vagina, I was barley near her vagina most of the time (I was tired) I also wiped away some of the water from the bottom of the condom. But she has been taking her pills everyday since then. It's been close to 2 weeks, 2 weeks will be Sunday, and everything has been fine until last night after I fingered her she started getting period like cramps for about 4-6 hours on and off and it didn't start until I was done fingering her, there was also no spotting and she has not had any cramping or pains today (atleast not yet). Now I do know that I went a little bit farther than usual and I hit that muscle in the back of her vagina with the tip of my finger, I forget what it's called, it's like the round oval shaped thing in the back of her vagina, so are the cramps from fingering? I am so worried that the pains she was having are implantation! Or was it just from fingering? HELP! We aren't ready for a kid.