Hi, I have a sister-in law, she is married and got kids and husband. I am married got kids and wife. My sis in law claims that I have shown her my stuff ( between two legs) while she was writing some phone numbers. I do believe and consciously aware that it never happened. She talked to her husband and he came and talked to me. He seemed taking his wife's side. Her husband told me not to tell my wife; that way we will have more complicated relationship. Her husband was at work when it happened in day light. While I believe that I never would do such thing, never have, and never will. I always thought of her as my sis. I have not told my wife yet as per her husband's advice. Now my sister-in law's husband said, don't come to my house alone, always come to house with your wife because of the insecurity that caused by me. My sis-in-law's husband has done so much for me, and I cannot thankful enough for him for what he has done for me. He is saying ( and I know that too) it never ever happened before . We have known each other families over 10 years. Now, at the time when it happened, my hands were in my pocket and shirt was untucked. Now, it is a big issue for both family even though my wife doesn't know yet. Her husband made me feel guilty, and said, " brother we don't want to have bad relationship, so please be careful next time, and always come with ur wife". It seems like our family relationship is in jeopardy. He said he will not mention to any other person. I feel like telling to my wife the whole situation because I am not embarrassed nor guilty because I have not done such thing. Please advice me what should I do? I know I cannot reclaim that trust and brotherhood from my sis-in-law, but me and my wife still want to have relationship with them. So, is it my sister-in-law was in different frame of mind or any psychological condition, or is it no body wants to trust me. Or should I just simply say sorry to her or him and appologized for what hahppened, and I never meant that" Right now I can not concentrate anything but the event that happened. I don't have any sex history. Thanks. If u have any additional question to better understand my situation , please do ask. Thanks.

Have you had problems with this woman before? Is there any reason for her wanting to get you in trouble with the rest of the family?

Do not apologize for something you did not do. That makes you guilty, even if you aren't.