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dragonbaby914
Jun 26, 2012, 12:35 PM
Okay, so here I am asking for anyone's help in this question that I have,
Me & My boyfriend have been dating over a year, We went homeless but have been couch hopping then see I left my home on my own. I was 19 & my boyfriend was kicked out he is 20, so we moved in with a friend of his & lived there for a couple of months, & then one day we got a call from the boyfriend's parents stating that we can live with them so from middle of 11/2011 to like early 2012 we were kicked out but I was allowed to hold on to my stuff at there residence until I can move it to a storage bin, long story short I was told lies, Like that his parents were getting a divorce and that his mother was in a mental ward and in prison and that she snapped, Now, a little background on the family they have a huge family! On mother's and father's side. The basic family is the Mother, Father, My Boyfriend(there son) & there daughter that they supposedly lost.
My boyfriend was born first & his sister is younger in the house of the parents they have the normal family photos of the mom, father, son, & this baby girl who I believe & have been told that it is my boyfriend's sister. Who passed away apparently,
The story that I was told about the sister's death is that my boyfriend (there son) was 5 years old when his sister died, She was only 3 when is passed away. I asked on how she died & got the answer (I Don't Know) from my boyfriend he stated that he barely remembers her.
Remind you I lived with these people,
Now the mother was supposedly married before my boyfriend's father then got divorced then got remarried to my boyfriend's father from what I was told by my boyfriend.
So, randomly I did a search on my boyfriend's parents & they come up with aliases both of them.
The father and the mother.
So I want to know if I can find out why they have aliases, & why that the sister doesn't come up in the search even though she is dead she should still come up,
But my boyfriend only comes under his father not his mother.



HELP ME PLEASE!

JudyKayTee
Jun 26, 2012, 01:10 PM
It's hard to understand what you are saying. A lot of this has nothing to do with your question.

As I understand things - your boyfriend's mother and father appear in a computer search with different names? You are positive you are looking at one person with two names by verifying birth dates and the like -

Why do they have aliases? I have no idea. Ask them - ?

I search people all the time. The dead sister does NOT necessarily appear, depending on how/where you were searching.

Where did you search, what site(s)?

EDIT: Is this the same guy - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/what-do-do-656320

AK lawyer
Jun 26, 2012, 01:19 PM
... So I wanna know if I can find out why they have aliases, & why that the sister doesn't come up in the search even though she is dead she should still come up,
But my boyfriend only comes under his father not his mother.


As the saying goes: "Garbage in. Garbage out." This means that computerized databases are only as reliable as the humans who enter the data.

Aliases are not necessarily indication that the people did something wrong. For example,

The mother's alias might be that of her other husband.
The father's alias might be someone's guess as to what his last name was.
The fact that the son only comes up under the father could be caused by any number of reasons.


On the other hand, the three of them might be a terrorist cell bent upon ending the World as we know it, or maybe they are in the Witness Protection Program. Who knows?

dragonbaby914
Jun 27, 2012, 09:58 AM
At Judy I can't open the link you posted,

& AK Lawyer your answer did help but the issue is when I search up the father's name it says the relatives and they are my boyfriends family that is how I know it is him. & the mother's name comes up with relatives that I met & it is the same relatives that are related to the father.
The sister does not come up at all, my boyfriend only comes up under the father's name.
I don't think they are terrorist but that made me (chuckle)
But, I don't think there is a way to find out that they are under the witness protection program?

JudyKayTee
Jun 27, 2012, 11:22 AM
No, if people could find other people in the Witness Protection Program on the computer there would be no Witness Protection Program.

I have no idea what's going on in this instance but I work under my previous name which is not my married name - gets confusing if you look me up.