Mguy2015
Jun 25, 2012, 08:35 PM
I've been with my girlfriend for a year and 8 months now. We've had a pretty solid and wonderful relationship with only minor problems like any other couple. For the most part, everything has just been fantastic. Recently she decided to study abroad in England for about 40 days. She'll be coming back in about 4 days, which means that it's already been a decent amount of time (by far the longest we've spent apart).
Going into the study abroad we were confident that it would work out and that everything would be okay. For awhile it was okay, but obviously communication was tough with both of our schedules/time differences. It also didn't help that we weren't able to be near each other to express how we felt, nor were we included in each others lives for the time being. Today we were talking and things were going pretty much as usual. Then we started talking about how different things were with the distance, and shortly after she stated that we'd discuss it when she got back.
Kind of made me wonder, so I asked if she had changed while she was there. She told me she didn't know and that she didn't want to talk about it while she was so far away. Doubts and such are hard enough to ignore with the distance that we've had, so this really didn't feel so great. I honestly don't know what to think or expect at the moment. So far I'm just a little sick to my stomach.. A few more days to burn before I found out what's up. Any ideas? Thanks for all responses and advice!
Going into the study abroad we were confident that it would work out and that everything would be okay. For awhile it was okay, but obviously communication was tough with both of our schedules/time differences. It also didn't help that we weren't able to be near each other to express how we felt, nor were we included in each others lives for the time being. Today we were talking and things were going pretty much as usual. Then we started talking about how different things were with the distance, and shortly after she stated that we'd discuss it when she got back.
Kind of made me wonder, so I asked if she had changed while she was there. She told me she didn't know and that she didn't want to talk about it while she was so far away. Doubts and such are hard enough to ignore with the distance that we've had, so this really didn't feel so great. I honestly don't know what to think or expect at the moment. So far I'm just a little sick to my stomach.. A few more days to burn before I found out what's up. Any ideas? Thanks for all responses and advice!