Luvstruck
Jun 24, 2012, 09:29 PM
I am almost positive that I'm lovestruck over this woman I know. The worst part is, I am 17 and she is 33 and married with beautiful twin girls, so there is absolutely no hope of a relationship. I met her at my church and the first time I saw her I was struck a bit. She is very handy, so she and I have worked on a couple projects together for the church, at the church. Each time, I developed a stronger feeling for her.
And, get this, right after I try to force myself to see her as a normal mom at the church, I find out that her husband is older than her by more than 10 years, so she is totally fine with a big age difference, even in a marriage! I was so excited! But still, I need to get over her somehow and just let time move forward. I'm hoping that when I'm older we may have a hope of getting together but I don't want to break up a family, nor do I think myself capable of doing so in the first place. So I just need to move forward from here.
Any advice? My head is spinning right now just thinking about her. Help!!
P.S.
This feels like sweet torture, and I truly have no idea what to do. I am thinking about confiding in her about my feelings to ask her for advice so that I can hopefully get closure and help but I don't know how that would go over. I don't hope to find a relationship by doing this, nor is that my motivation. I just really want to talk to her about it. Any opinions?
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And, get this, right after I try to force myself to see her as a normal mom at the church, I find out that her husband is older than her by more than 10 years, so she is totally fine with a big age difference, even in a marriage! I was so excited! But still, I need to get over her somehow and just let time move forward. I'm hoping that when I'm older we may have a hope of getting together but I don't want to break up a family, nor do I think myself capable of doing so in the first place. So I just need to move forward from here.
Any advice? My head is spinning right now just thinking about her. Help!!
P.S.
This feels like sweet torture, and I truly have no idea what to do. I am thinking about confiding in her about my feelings to ask her for advice so that I can hopefully get closure and help but I don't know how that would go over. I don't hope to find a relationship by doing this, nor is that my motivation. I just really want to talk to her about it. Any opinions?
(I am the user who asked this question)