confusedgirl000
Jun 24, 2012, 08:08 AM
Moved to its own question
The guy I am with wants to be best friends and let the friendship progress. We make out and stay over and he does lots of "boyfriend" stuff like cook for me, iron my clothes, help me clean my room, etc. He says he is not ready for a relationship as he needs to build up a career. We are both 25. I don’t mind going slow as long as later he is ready to call me his girlfriend. If he is not ready for relationships now, will he ever be ready?
The fact is that we are a part of a large friends circle since the last 1 year and we hooked up just 2 months ago. We have decided to keep this to ourselves. People in the group think we are a couple but we deny it saying that we are just friends because have not defined ourselves yet.
The boy wants to spend time all his free time with me and even talk about the future. Most of the time I am included in the future but sometimes I am not. There is no other girl and I know this for sure as we are close friends.
I know 2 months is a short time. How long should I wait for until we can define the relationship between us?
The guy I am with wants to be best friends and let the friendship progress. We make out and stay over and he does lots of "boyfriend" stuff like cook for me, iron my clothes, help me clean my room, etc. He says he is not ready for a relationship as he needs to build up a career. We are both 25. I don’t mind going slow as long as later he is ready to call me his girlfriend. If he is not ready for relationships now, will he ever be ready?
The fact is that we are a part of a large friends circle since the last 1 year and we hooked up just 2 months ago. We have decided to keep this to ourselves. People in the group think we are a couple but we deny it saying that we are just friends because have not defined ourselves yet.
The boy wants to spend time all his free time with me and even talk about the future. Most of the time I am included in the future but sometimes I am not. There is no other girl and I know this for sure as we are close friends.
I know 2 months is a short time. How long should I wait for until we can define the relationship between us?