I have this lady we and have been together for six years now. She has a twelve year daughterer (not mine) and two yrs. Ago she got another girl (mine) she is lovely and good in bed though older than me by five years. She works with a bank though I never relied on her money.

She get regularly called by men, even late hours and she says they are just colleagues. Before she got pregnant two yrs. Ago, I went through her phone and found a sent message, and noticed she slept with a man. Though she promised never to do it again, I have a lot of doubts in her, and I feel as if she is cheating. What do I do? I'm married with two kids, and I love this woman more than my wife. Please help.

Re-write this, so that it's not confusing. All I got from this is that you're married and have two kids. Yet you had a kid with this other woman and you think she's cheating on you and can't trust you? If I'm correct, have a look in the mirror there Mr. Cheater.

Holy crap... did I read that right?

You're married but fooling around with someone else and she got pregnant 2 years ago by someone else... now you are worried if the woman that you're cheating on your wife with is being faithful to you?

Seriously? LMAO!

Why is this a problem? Cheaters are not to be trusted, but you already know that. Just ask your wife, she knows not to trust you I bet, and knows how you feel.