View Full Version : Ex wanted to get lunch and be friends... no contact after lunch?
jakerz00
Jun 22, 2012, 08:10 AM
My Ex from a while back moved back home after her school thing didn't work out. She broke up with me to go to school across the country BTW. Anyway she said she wanted to be friends and didn't want to loose me as a friend, I wasn't really cool with this at first because I still have feelings for her and didn't want to stir them back up. She asked me everyday for about 2 weeks to come eat lunch with her and finally I went. I had a good time talking with her and hanging out and it didn't hurt as much as I thought seeing her again would. Well this was 2 weeks ago and she kind of stopped contact with me after the lunch,I text her a few times and got the usual 1 word answers 2-3 hours later. Seems like she doesn't want to talk anymore. What do you ll think is up?
C0bra_M3nace
Jun 22, 2012, 09:31 AM
What's up? She's stirred up feelings of her own, there's two people in this situation you know, not just you. Keep no contact like you should have in the first place and move on.
talaniman
Jun 23, 2012, 07:52 PM
She found other things to do, so leave her alone... AGAIN.
letitbe1111
Jun 23, 2012, 07:56 PM
It sounds like she didn't realize all the feelings she was stirring up. Do not contact her and when she tries to contact you again- TELL HER NO!! She sounds like she is confused or toying with you and making sure you are still available. You need to move on even though it sucks and it is hard. There is someone else perfect for you- you just need to get yourself back to a good place. Good luck!
Jimmy78
Jun 23, 2012, 10:13 PM
Move on period.