So I have been dating my boyfriend for about two years now and in January I met another guy. We talked for a while and I really like him he was nice he treated me good. He never yelled or got angry with me and he was always so honest about everything. So I decided to break up with my boyfriend because I felt bad about talking to someone else while we were dating. It lasted about two weeks then we got back together. And I stopped talking to the other guy for a while.

Well one day we started talking again and he really liked me and I really liked him. I couldn't stop thinking about him, so I broke up with him again and told my boyfriend I had met someone else and didn’t feel like it was fair that I like someone else while I was with him. So two months has gone by and it didn’t feel right being with this other guy so I stopped talking to him just this week. Me and my ex had seen each other and decided to get back together and try and work everything out. He is still a little cautious which I understand.

While we were together he had slept with other girls and told me that there was one he actually kind of liked. But he wasn't attached to her or anything and that they were planning to go somewhere with each other but he called it off since we are back together. I told him that if he did like someone else I would understand even if I would be heartbroken. But he assured me that he didn't. So I asked him if he still loved me and he said yes. But it will take him a while to get back to that honeymoon type love.

So I just wanted a little advice on how to work on things any tips from people that have been through the same thing, help please?

You two need to get away from each other is what you need to do. You're both not meant for each other, period.

Relationships aren't meant to be fixed or worked on, they happen, not according to any plan or circumstance, everything just falls into place. Your relationship with this guy is completely unhealthy and uneccessary.

Leave him before you both hurt each other anymore.

Bouncing back and forth between guys is hardly an indication of any true commitment for anything except for a title. I doubt the honeymoon feelings come back soon, and can bet he has an eye on better things if he can find it.

I have no doubt you have your eyes open to other options to, so I suppose you should be hoping for the best but preparing for the worst.

You know you can explore, and experiment just being single, as that's better than waiting for honeymoon feelings to come back. I mean who knows how long that will be, and if they do at all.

I would move on to new and fresh pastures. But that's just me as it never made sense to go back to what you had lost interest in before.