odin68w
Jun 19, 2012, 07:42 PM
Moved to its own question
It's been hard not to contact her, but in the long run it will payout. Even though we only dated for about 7 months I fell deeply in love with her and I'm the one who broke it off. After moving in with her and her kids, it really hit the fan, and we were constantly fighting. One note, she is one of those girls who is very hard to read, and never gave any signs that she wanted to work things out. After the break up we talked on occasion and sometimes for hours at a time, and one day I had a gut feeling that something bad or something bad was going to happen, (something bad did happen to one of my family members) I blew up her phone and after that she stated that I needed to leave her alone or she was going to take action. I respected her for a couple weeks but I ended up texting her once and emailed her once and no reply. When someone states that they don't want you, it hurts really bad, but reading all these posts have really opened my eyes to just give her space and let her miss you. I know she cares and loves me, but I need to respect her wishes and just let things be and move on and control the things in my life that's attainable within my grasp. The power of losing control can be very frightening but anything is achievable with time and patience.
I had stated that I really wanted to work things out with her after we broke up and I moved into my new place, and she had stated that she was trying to work things out, but how was I supposed to know she was on the same boat if she didn't give me any signs? I really don't get it. So I've decided to just let her be, and just concentrate on myself. Any suggestions? Clueless here. I am not the one to chase girls but I want to marry this woman. HELP!!
It's been hard not to contact her, but in the long run it will payout. Even though we only dated for about 7 months I fell deeply in love with her and I'm the one who broke it off. After moving in with her and her kids, it really hit the fan, and we were constantly fighting. One note, she is one of those girls who is very hard to read, and never gave any signs that she wanted to work things out. After the break up we talked on occasion and sometimes for hours at a time, and one day I had a gut feeling that something bad or something bad was going to happen, (something bad did happen to one of my family members) I blew up her phone and after that she stated that I needed to leave her alone or she was going to take action. I respected her for a couple weeks but I ended up texting her once and emailed her once and no reply. When someone states that they don't want you, it hurts really bad, but reading all these posts have really opened my eyes to just give her space and let her miss you. I know she cares and loves me, but I need to respect her wishes and just let things be and move on and control the things in my life that's attainable within my grasp. The power of losing control can be very frightening but anything is achievable with time and patience.
I had stated that I really wanted to work things out with her after we broke up and I moved into my new place, and she had stated that she was trying to work things out, but how was I supposed to know she was on the same boat if she didn't give me any signs? I really don't get it. So I've decided to just let her be, and just concentrate on myself. Any suggestions? Clueless here. I am not the one to chase girls but I want to marry this woman. HELP!!