Victoria_117
Jun 19, 2012, 05:51 AM
Hello,
I have never orgasmed during sex. I can make myself orgasm using a vibrator. I find it difficult to show a man or even engage a man in what works for me because it is only the strong vibrations from my vibrator (Rampant Rabbit) that make me orgasm. No man can make vibrations as powerful as my vibrator on my clitoris. Yes it can feel nice, sometimes uncomfortable and I know I need to say if its not working for me. I have faked it in the past and regret it now. I have decided I would not lie again, I hate it and that I want to be honest from now on. I am willing to keep trying different things and see if I can orgasm with this new partner.
I am worried that if I tell a partner this, that it might dent his confidence in himself as a man. How do I tell him this without taking away his hopes for a happy, fulfilling sex life with me? I do not want him to feel like he's not a man because of this.
Please help!
Victoria-Elliose
I have never orgasmed during sex. I can make myself orgasm using a vibrator. I find it difficult to show a man or even engage a man in what works for me because it is only the strong vibrations from my vibrator (Rampant Rabbit) that make me orgasm. No man can make vibrations as powerful as my vibrator on my clitoris. Yes it can feel nice, sometimes uncomfortable and I know I need to say if its not working for me. I have faked it in the past and regret it now. I have decided I would not lie again, I hate it and that I want to be honest from now on. I am willing to keep trying different things and see if I can orgasm with this new partner.
I am worried that if I tell a partner this, that it might dent his confidence in himself as a man. How do I tell him this without taking away his hopes for a happy, fulfilling sex life with me? I do not want him to feel like he's not a man because of this.
Please help!
Victoria-Elliose