How to teach him about intimacy, not just intercourse. I'm 47 and we are getting married without first having sex. How can I make him more at ease and satisfy him?

He's a virgin?

He's a virgin?

No, just with three women who never treated him with compassion, love and kindness in the intimacy area. We are eloping in three days and I want him to be at ease with everything. Plan is to start slow. We have not had intercourse, we are waiting until we are married! I am very experienced.

If he is 70, he is not likely to change his ways and has learned how to respond and act in situations. I would not expect to see him change.

At some point you really can't teach on old dog new tricks... this is one of those.