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momma5
Jun 18, 2012, 09:22 PM
Me and my ex husband have 2 beautiful little girls ages 7 & 5. Currently we have joint custody that was granted last Sept ( 2011) in April of this year I noticed changes in both his behavior and my daughters when they would return from their weekend of visitation. So I more or less sat back and watched. My 7 year began coming to me and telling me things that appalled me. He father has no stable home environment first off and there is approximately 8 people living in the house he stays at when he does have them and its only a 2 bedroom home. The girls come home filthy. He is now dating girlfriend #6 who apparently crashes with him when my girls are with him. This isn't the first time he has done that. The last girlfriend he had my 7yo asked me why her daddy and the girlfriend slept naked. They're has been a recent string of events in his family including a lot of drug usage and I believe the new girlfriend is just as involved. I am going back to court June 28 and seeking sole custody with supervised visitation to be put in place for 1 year so hopefully hell get his act together. What are my chances of winning? I'm married and me and my husband both work I am involved with all my children's school functions and I'm currently beginning the process of adopting my 2 Stepdaughters .please help

paraclete
Jun 18, 2012, 09:31 PM
Me and my ex husband have 2 beautiful lil girls ages 7 & 5. Currently we have joint custody that was granted last Sept ( 2011) in April of this year I noticed changes in both his behavior and my daughters when they would return from their weekend of visitation. So I more or less sat back n watched. My 7 year began coming to me and telling me things that appalled me. He father has no stable home enviornment first off and their is approximately 8 people living in the house he stays at when he does have them and its only a 2 bedroom home. The girls come home filthy. He is now dating girlfriend #6 who apparently crashes with him when my girls are with him. This isn't the first time he has done that. The last gf he had my 7yo asked me why her daddy n the gf slept naked. They're has been a recent string of events in his family including alot of drug usage and I believe the new gf is just as involved. I am going back to court June 28 and seeking sole custody with supervised visitation to be put in place for 1 year so hopefully hell get his act together. What are my chances of winning? I'm married and me and my husband both work I am involved with all my children's school functions and im currently beginning the process of adopting my 2 Stepdaughters .please help
Sounds like you have a good chance of winning your kids are in moral danger at the least

momma5
Jun 18, 2012, 09:50 PM
sounds like you have a good chance of winning your kids are in moral danger at the least
Thank you :-) I'm very frustrated because this is the same man who demanded I abort our now 5 year old. He kicked me the girls and my son out in November of 2010 because he wanted to b single. I have been the stable one for my girls even when me n him were married. He was out drinking and I was home being a. Mom