I think my ex-girlfriend was a special breed of Narcissist if she was one because she treated me (the good guy) like crap just like a true Narcissist would but the people who treated her like crap or use her she gave them 100% of herself every time. When I asked for something it was the usual “No I’m tired or I can’t do that for you” but if her friend who uses her as a flunky/baby sitter asks her to do something she jumps over the moon for her. Her college roommates used her for what they could get from her for like food and water to survive away at school. They would talk about her behind her back and hurt her feelings making her feel like crap but if I did something she didn’t like she would kick me to the cub like yesterdays trash like she always would. As for relationships, people who cheated, played her like a fool, and used her she talks about how she was a great girlfriend to them but for me I got the short end of the stick. She couldn’t get me a glass of water when I was thirsty at her house but a friend called and asked could she come from one end of the city to the other because they needed help with their car and she was about to go at the drop of a dime. On one end I was used like and option, she lacked empathy with me, and everything was my fault when something went wrong but with the losers everything was okay no matter how bad things got.

There are three sides to every break up, your side, her side, then the truth. Honestly man it doesn't matter now, she's your ex. Every wrong she committed agenst you is irrelevant at this point. Just brush her off and get your life back to where you want to be.

there are three sides to every break up, your side, her side, then the truth. honestly man it doesn't matter now, shes your ex. every wrong she committed agenst you is irrelevant at this point. just brush her off and get your life back to where you want to be.

That's a great point :) who cares about a person like that!

She is your ex, don't talk to her ever again and move on. Much better women out there, who knows what she is, and to be honest with you, who cares? She is not part of your life anymore and that is something you should be thankful about. Move on and soon you will find someone who actually values you.

Is there a question here? She's the "ex." I'd be thrilled that she's gone!

And, yes, you have to move on.