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rizzie4life
Jun 18, 2012, 09:22 AM
So I was going out with a boy we dated on and off because his parents didn't like interracial couples. We got back together. Eventually we broke up for good and he still flirted with me. But there's my friend she's kind of poor so as my friend I let her sleep over my house, eat my food etc. She's hung out with me and him before and they've bonded a friendship but I found it odd that even thought him and I were still friendly he would hug her in school but not me.

So the weather started warming up and we went to the park a lot and I noticed they had a lot in common as opposed to me and him. I guess they began hanging out without me there and got closer. He asked her out and yes it was considerate for her to come to me and ask me if it was OK. I stupidly said yes. I only said yes cause I wanted her to have a better relationship than her last. Once we went back to school they started acting all coupley holding hands while walking down the hall, kissing and all touchy feely.

Two days went by and I was OK until she called me one day and wanted to hang out and of course he was with her we sat around and all they did was make out in front of me. I just sat there and let it happen. Since that day I stopped talking to her. Was that the right decision?

C0bra_M3nace
Jun 18, 2012, 09:31 AM
First off, you shouldn't be friends with your ex, not a good idea. Secondly, she made you a third car to the make out train. I think that's a little low to be honest, I wouldn't be talking to her either.

mmresd
Jun 18, 2012, 10:17 AM
Definitely agree with no friends with ex. However, why does it matter what he does? Move on, he is no longer with you, he has no ties to you, and what he does or doesn't do is none of your business anymore, live your life, don't worry about other people's personal life. Considering that your friend had the decency to ask you if it was OK, and you gave your approval... you are unfairly punishing your friend.

Homegirl 50
Jun 18, 2012, 12:21 PM
no matter what happened, they shouldn't have just made out in front of her, when she was the only other person there
People do that all of the time. It's tacky and rude but people do it.
I think dating a friends ex is tacky, but she asked you and you said yes. So don't get mad, move on.

talaniman
Jun 18, 2012, 01:17 PM
I wouldn't hang around them, just respectfully decline, and go do your thing, and lt them do theirs. How old are the three of you?

rizzie4life
Jun 18, 2012, 02:59 PM
He's 15-Freshman now sophomore I am 16- junior and she's like 15-junior

mmresd
Jun 18, 2012, 03:56 PM
no matter what happened, they shouldn't have just made out in front of her, when she was the only other person there

They have a consentful relationship with each other and are in completely liberty to do as they please, if the victim is getting affected is because she is choosing to put herself in those positions. What is wrong with kissing your girlfriend in public? Ex-girlfriends are everywhere, especially in high school, why would you have to mold your life around someone you are not longer with?

durpstick
Jun 18, 2012, 11:04 PM
Same thing happened to me, forget the two of them, a friend who does that is dirt