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yoyis00
Jun 17, 2012, 11:42 PM
Well, it's really hard to tell. I met my ex boyfriend 1 year ago, we were living together, we shared a lot of things, I truly fell in love of him, we broke up 4 months ago because external things affected our relationship, like work, friends, family. I moved out and tried to continue with my life but I was thinking about him every single day, he said he loves me and he never have felt it for anyone else in his life, my best friend saw him with other girl about 1 month ago, it was really hard for me, he text me 2 weeks ago and confirmed me his new relationship and said he was thinking about me because she is coming from same country but he wasn't sure about this relationship yet, how weird is that? I was very upset but I didn't say anything to him. Anyway I found out he got married 1 week ago, it devastated me, nothing never hurt me that much in my entire life, I can't believe it, how can it happen? He met her 2 months ago. I don't know what I can do? My heart is in a million pieces.

iloveyu101
Jun 18, 2012, 05:40 AM
I'm sorry:( I'm going through a heartbreak right now so I understand how you're feeling. So he says he loves you but he went on and got married to this other woman? Forget him, he doesn't deserve your tears. It's going to take awhile but try and move on, fin someone who'll be there for you always. That's all I've got, hope it helped you..

talaniman
Jun 18, 2012, 06:07 AM
Your ex sure moves fast. You may be hurting now, but maybe you dodged a bullet. Lets not forget, you guys didn't work out.

Fr_Chuck
Jun 18, 2012, 06:09 AM
So you stop all contact with him, first you never know, he could have had several girls like you in other places he was talking to. You will never know. Also, you just move on, forget and don't try to hope for a relationship with him now.

mmresd
Jun 18, 2012, 03:52 PM
You do what you should have done from the beginning, go no contact and move on with your life. One of the highlights of no contact is not knowing what happens to your ex after his/her breakup, which is great, because those things can only hurt you, not benefit you in any way.