I am eleven and I want a bra my boobs um... Stick out my shirt a bit and I tried on one of my sisters bras and they fit it was padded and the training bra fit well too by the way I hate talking about those things even about getting new underwear HELP!!

I really do what to wear a bra hOw do I tell my mOm! I am 11 & my... Boobs are getting fuller what or how should I say

Say to her, "Mom, I have something to ask you. Could we go shopping and buy me some pretty bras?" Or write a note and decorate it with hearts.

Just ask her to take you. All women go through the same thing she will understand. Just tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable and you would like to try one out :)

I'd sit down with your mother and ask her ALL of your questions at 1 time. You NEED a bra and she hasn't noticed OR you WANT a bra?

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Talk to your mother - sit her down and discuss all of your issues with her. I don't know if you NEED a bra (which you've said) or WANT a bra (which you've said). You need to open communication with your mother.

I think all of your questions should be combined.

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You posted two versions - you NEED a bra and you WANT a padded bra.

Would I allow my stepdaughter(s) to wear a padded bra at age 11? No, not unless I could see the need.

Apparently your mother doesn't see the need.

So ask for a training bra, a sports bra. Why do you need padding? To compete with the other 11 year olds?

Well I am going to text my mom I want a traIning bra what do I text?? I don't want to text something that makes my mom feel like I am growing u know those puberty talks and all those stuff?!

"I think I need a bra" is that not just what you want to say?

But why can't you just sit down and talk to her ? Getting a bra is just part of growing up and should not even be a issue to worry about talking to her about.

"I think I need a bra" is that not just what you want to say?

But why can't you just sit down and talk to her ? Getting a bra is just part of growing up and should not even be a issue to worry about talking to her about.

Well I talk my mOm about puberty by texting it makes me feel better and her

 Mom can you get me a training bra ? If yes don't tell dad or Joceline that I said that I wanted a bra say that you said that OK or it will be best if you tried to say nothing I just don't want to let them know because I feel weird  I am not trying to grow up so quick just kind of need one if no it is OK also no talks please only text me even at home 

By the way Joceline is my sister yes or no and textingbis the best way for me and my mom to talk about puberty

Opps textingbis I meant texting because and let me change the qestion should I text this to my mom so I can get a bra

Not because it is "is"

No you should go and talk to your mom, You may even offend your mom by texting, she may want you to come to her in person and TALK, I would ignore my son if he did not come talk to me.

Next no you should not set rules on it to restrict your mom, Moms and dads talk, ( or should)
Someone will see them in the laundry, they will see the lines of the bra on your shirt, mom may need to explain to dad the money she spends

That's sad, I talked to my parents about everything, in person. It shows maturity and responsibility.

Your dad knows daughters grow up and need a bra. Joceline will need one some day. You and your mom need to talk in person about bras and boys and puberty. If you can't do that, you show how immature you are. Do you want to be considered immature? Now, THAT is weird!

Your dad knows daughters grow up and need a bra. Joceline will need one some day. You and your mom need to talk in person about bras and boys and puberty. If you can't do that, you show how immature you are. Do you want to be considered immature? Now, THAT is weird!

Thanks!!

I'd sit down with your mother and ask her ALL of your questions at 1 time. You NEED a bra and she hasn't noticed OR you WANT a bra?

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Oh I am kida dumb I should put the questions together lol

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I want to ask my mom to get me a training bra but do I even need a training bra??

There is no way we can tell. You asked this question before and received several answers. So did you talk to your mom?

You are obsessed by this, you have some issue over this, so, Either you are so much more mature than most girls your age ( and it does happen) or you have just let desires of being older effect you.

I would see no reason that having one would hurt , and if you are so desiring one, I would say go for it and talk to mom. Or save up money and tell mom you want to buy one of your own.

Or she is a troll and not an 11-year old.

Every ones making it seam easy I know how you feel go to her and tell her that it makes you uncomfortable to talk about but need one because it may be inappropriate not to wear one at your age

Every ones making it seam easy I know how you feel go to her and tell her that it makes you uncomfortable to talk about but need one because it may be inappropriate not to wear one at your age

No one is making it "seam" easy. When a person asks the same question more than once and appears not to be following advice it's difficult to remain involved.

What is your answer? How would you ask?

Every ones making it seam easy I know how you feel go to her and tell her that it makes you uncomfortable to talk about but need one because it may be inappropriate not to wear one at your age


Thanks I ask my mom you understand me thanks

I have the same problem I need to ask my mom for a bra for the same resons as you

I have the same problem i need to ask my mom for a bra for the same resons as you
So read this thread and follow the same advice we gave her. Let me know when your mom says yes.