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painwithoutlove
Jun 17, 2012, 06:33 PM
Im 14 and I had sex my first time yesterday. We did it multiple times and every time we did I would bleed. I was bleeding until today. Im pretty tiny too. The first time we did I bled a little and every time we did it after that id bleed a little more. Is this normal?

Fr_Chuck
Jun 17, 2012, 06:47 PM
Bleeding is normal for the first time you have sex.

What forms of birth control are you using ?

painwithoutlove
Jun 18, 2012, 04:13 AM
Bleeding is normal for the first time you have sex.

What forms of birth control are you using ?

Im not on any birth control. I know bleeding is normal but I didn't know if you were suppose to bleed that much or not.

Fr_Chuck
Jun 18, 2012, 06:37 AM
So you are ready to be a mother, you have ways of raising a child ?

painwithoutlove
Jun 18, 2012, 12:50 PM
We just use condoms. And this is besides the point

J_9
Jun 18, 2012, 07:59 PM
We just use condoms. And this is besides the point

Umm, no, it's not beside the point. Many women use condoms and still become pregnant. I used the condom AND the pill and still became pregnant not once, but twice.

JESS2012
Jun 18, 2012, 08:15 PM
I remember being 14 yrs old, I moved out thinking I knew everything. Pregnant at 16 married at 17 divorced at 19. I wish I wouldn't not been so freakin hard headed, luckily I made it BARELY. Very hard road to go down and very selfish to the baby if you get pregnant, that baby deserves more, my son deserved more and I am still working my of to give him what he deserves. Might want to think more carefully about your choices.

painwithoutlove
Jun 18, 2012, 08:33 PM
I don't need any advice on when to have sex. I didn't ask for help now did I? Its my choice if I want to or not. I asked about bleeding. Not getting pregnant. So obviously its besides the point. K thanks.

J_9
Jun 18, 2012, 08:51 PM
I dont need any advice on when to have sex. I didnt ask for help now did I? Its my choice if I want to or not. I asked about bleeding. Not getting pregnant. So obviously its besides the point. K thanks.

Okie dokie. Have you considered how you're going to tell your mother you are having sex? You will have to tell her once you are pregnant.