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Jun 17, 2012, 03:44 AM
Me and my boyfriend have been together for seven years. In the beginning the sex was great and very frequent. In time the sex got less and less until we didn't have sex at all for months. I didn't want to pressure him but it's gone on for months now.
It didn't bother me too much until we decided to try for a baby. It's got to the point where we are using a turkey baster. I find this degrading and it makes me feel so unattractive. I have spoken to him about it and he says it's nothing to do with me he just doesn't have any urges but I don't know what to believe. I asked him to go doctor but he makes excuses.
I love him to bits but I don't know how much longer I can deal with this especially when it is making me feel so insecure unattractive and desperate. I think these feelings also come from a sexual comment he made to another girl that he said was a joke. Please help
It didn't bother me too much until we decided to try for a baby. It's got to the point where we are using a turkey baster. I find this degrading and it makes me feel so unattractive. I have spoken to him about it and he says it's nothing to do with me he just doesn't have any urges but I don't know what to believe. I asked him to go doctor but he makes excuses.
I love him to bits but I don't know how much longer I can deal with this especially when it is making me feel so insecure unattractive and desperate. I think these feelings also come from a sexual comment he made to another girl that he said was a joke. Please help