Hello, I am a very quiet and extremely nice person. Often told too nice. But me and my fiancé have been together for 3 years now and his brothers girlfriend is a *****.She is extremely rude and thinks she is a princess. I have helped them out in so many ways and occasions and only got rude remarks back in return not ever even a thank you. Me and my fiancé always talk about how much of a ***** she is but he just lets her get away with it. So the other day I put my foot down and told her everything that was bothering me and now she is getting married which I wish her all the best with but she waited until it was only me my fiancé and her boyfriend in the car and asked my fiancé to be a part of their wedding. And basically she just smothered it all over my face that I wasn't a part of it which I quite frankly don't care matter in fact I'm not even going to this wedding.

But after she rubbed that in my face was when I had enough and told her exactly how I felt. I named every incident and all her rude remarks and told her I am not taking her disrespecting me anymore... so basically she wrote back to me and said that I made my fiancé not be a part of his own brother's wedding and that she is saying all of this in the nicest version possible. She is just a *****. I have never encountered someone so rude but basically I wrote back and said this is between my fiancé and his brother nothing to do with me so let them deal with it. She wrote back and said I am done with you and want nothing to do with you and have a great life. I am sorry but I am totally done with her too actually I was done with her the first time she was rude when I spent all day getting a barbecue that her and her fiancé wanted with their whole family because of their engagement and she sat there and watched me do everything and the next day not even a thank you she said nobody asked you guys to help. That's just one situation out of too many to even mention.

But now I am stuck cause there is no way in hell I am going to this wedding but it will kill my fiancé I don't know what to do and he also doesn't know what to do his parents will never understand. But in my defense I am not going to be treated like anymore.

Ok, I should be given a medal for reading all that ;D

Listen, as far as I can get, all you got to do is just come to the wedding, speech a couple good words maybe, like how much you love them both and how you only wish them happiness, smile all the time, so everyone would see what a good person you are, kindly intended. After wedding, just do and say whatever da hell you want to her, but not visiting the wedding would be only her victory, so put yourself together girl, you can do this.

Thanks for replying and thanks for reading that long message lol... there is so much more but had to keep it short as possible. I just ask for some respect and I don't get that so why be fake? I already told her everything I needed to and she disowned me which is a bonus to me:)... I just feel bad for my fiancé in all this

Go and be the belle of the ball... er... wedding, and have a great time and be a lovely example of charm, poise, and maturity. You are not doing this to one up her, your are doing this for family!! HIS!

Back to the squabble the next day! Now do the right thing for your husband and yourself because it would be embarrassing to him and hurtful. Is your hatred for this ***** worth him being humiliated?


thanks for replying and thanks for reading that long message lol.....there is so much more but had to keep it short as possible. I just ask for some respect and i dont get that so why be fake? i already told her everything i needed to and she disowned me which is a bonus to me:).....i just feel bad for my fiance in all this

I can't believe you would stoop to being as much a ****** as she is, I just can't!