So I was in a 3 year relationship in high school. Broke up my sophomore year. Haven't had a relationship last much longer than a night since. I'm a good opener but a horrible closer. If I actually like the girl then I some how always find a way to put my foot in my mouth and ruin it. I'm done with one night stands and week long flings. Any suggestions on what I should do to become more soul matey ish?

I think giving your life some good orderly direction in other areas besides sex, would be an excellent start. I mean balance, and accomplishment outside of the bedroom is a great way to get into clean adult fun, and activities, and learn more than just about G spots.

Got a career path or future goal?

Well college is an idea. I have two jobs I work and both are looking at me as manager material so I have at the very least that. And that you brought another question to mind! Should sex be abstained from while searching for a significant other?

Oh and yes that relationship was almost 4 years ago. No longer relavant I suppose. Just more of a marker in time.

I would choose my partners carefully, but sex can get in the way of other areas of human interaction, and confuse feelings of lust and love. Enjoy being single and never look for a soul mate. Just make solid friends to have fun with, outside of bed.

Maybe all those affairs have left you wanting something solid and steady. Don't dwell on it too much, let it happen naturally. It will.

Right on about the solid and steady! Thank you.