I have a pea sized lump behind my ear its soft to touch and doesn't hurt when I touch it, it doesn't move around, it looks abit off colour as my girl said, anyone have any ideas please, if I try to grab hold of it I can grab it at the front of my lobe to, would be very grateful for any comments I don't think its lymph node because it doesn't sound the other stoys I have read, ty, nicki

I got some pea sized things behind my head too man.. I suggest you go to doctor asap.. I have to go every 6 months or so to check if it changed or anything because its nothing serius now but it might get serius
So as I said.. go to a doctor