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Valtrax
Jun 12, 2012, 10:40 PM
I like a girl that I like a for a few years but she just found out not to long ago that I like her and I found she likes me. She had even told me that there relationship is going bad. And she calls me on the phone and we will talk for hours and about 3 days ago before she went camping I was talking on the phone with her and her friend and her friend ask if I loved that girl that has a boyfriend and I said yes and she said that is sweet. What do I do?

pethouse33
Jun 13, 2012, 02:17 PM
My advice to you is do not interfere with their relationship. If this girl is into you she will probably leave the guy she is dating. The best remedy:TIME
Hope this helped!
Abby W.

mmresd
Jun 13, 2012, 02:39 PM
You respect her and her relationship and back off until she ends the relationship with her current boyfriend by her OWN choice without ANY influence from you.

Homegirl 50
Jun 13, 2012, 04:21 PM
You back off and let the relationship between her and her boyfriend run it's course. You could be the boyfriend. How would you feel?

tempt_fate
Jun 13, 2012, 05:18 PM
Leave her be. You might get a chance and you might not! What's meant to be won't pass you by :)

Alty
Jun 13, 2012, 05:20 PM
She has a boyfriend. If she loves you so much, she'll dump the boyfriend to be with you. Since she hasn't done that, you can only assume that her feelings for you aren't as strong as your feelings for her.

She has to choose. It's all on her. You, or her current boyfriend. So far her choice has been clear.

talaniman
Jun 16, 2012, 06:03 PM
You leave her alone and get your own girl, that's what you do!! Don't just sit and get played because you are smitten by sweet words and attentions of a lonely girl. That how you get to be her emotional tampon, while she keeps her boyfriend. Demand more of yourself, because sweet don't cut it for a guy.