I have an iud and didn't think I could get pregnant, but I feel like I am. I've taken two pregnancy tests which the results showed negative on both. I'm going on my third month of missing my period. How do I tell him. I don't want to ruin the relationship between us.

Eventually he's going to find out, your stomachs just dying to tell him in a couple months, so I'd beat it to the punch and let him know, because sweetheart, guys don't like it when they hear stuff from someone else.

Tell him now, because as PO'd as you think he will be, he will be more PO'd later. I mean what kind of relationship is this that you are afraid to tell the truth? Tell him now!

How long have you had this IUD? What kind is it? Some IUDs actually stop period from happening.