Man 1: one and off for five years we have one child together. He recently slept with the one enemy I have which just threw me off making me feel like I need him. I just split them up and my son and myself are in the process of moving back in

Man 2: we've seen each other on and off for over a year. When we get close he tends to push me away. He's the perfect match for me our morals are identical. Only problem being how he continues to distance himself. Last week he contacts me telling me how sorry he is and he can't take it anymore because he has strong feelings for me and he feels like he needs to be with me.

Man 1 doesn't know about man 2 at all. Man 2 knows about man 1 because of our child but doesn't know I'm seeing him or in the process of moving in.


I want to have a healthy relationship with man 2 because he's exactly what I want to be happy. I don't know how possible this is considering I'm moving in w man 1. I'm hesitant to break things off with man 1 since I just fought so hard for him and we have a child in common. This all has had the worse timing ever!! Idk what to do

Boy 2 is being pushed away by your child and current relationship by the sounds of it. If he tends to fall back when you fall in, then he's not the man you're looking for, and things didn't work out with Boy 1, so why would it this time?

Run far away from both of these boys and go find a man.

Stay single an independent. Do you really need a man? If that's all you want then it doesn't matter who you choose.

I got to say by your own words,


I want to have a healthy relationship with man 2 because he's exactly what I want to be happy. I don't know how possible this is considering I'm moving in w man 1.

Don't move in with man 1. Why screw up things with going backward to a failed relationship? Stay single, and explore your options until you are sure what YOU want, not what they want you to do!