I have been living with my fiancé for 2 years now and we plan to get married next year. Over the last couple of months we have been having these awful fights. It is mainly to do about our differences as I was brought up in another country and recently moved to his country. And whenever I have an opinion he gets aggressive and he says I'm trying to change everything and that if I don't accept some things in his country then I should leave.

The arguments always start on something so simple and trivial and then it develops into a full blown shouting match where he becomes a bully and pushes me around and has a few times hurt me. I don't know how to stop these fights. It seems like he never wants to listen to what I say and it really hurts my feelings.

I don't know if we are like this now if we should get married.

Not only should you not marry this fellow, but run away as far as possible from him.