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justchill64
Jun 9, 2012, 06:30 PM
THIS IS THE FULL STORY OF WAT HAPPENED I COPIED IT OVER TO MAKE IT EASIER FOR U. I JUST NEED HELP , I ACTUALLY CRIED :(

One month ago, this girl and I got to know each other, we basically know everything or mostly everything about each other. She used to come to see me everyday until exams started to come up and then she just stop. So I texted her one day asking her on my birthday, that we should go out, and then she agreed, but after that we don't really talk that much like I said before exams came up.

All right since we haven't really spoken to each other lately, all we say is hi and bye. I am going to ask her out on a date to try and bring back some interest, BUT when we speak she always smiles and she loves my company.

Then now I spoke to her, she explained that she was busy with school work and exams, which is true and I was really selfish to demand her to spent time with me. So I asked her out in person this time but we were both busy , so we had to cancel .

Now we are in exam period , I loaned her a book for her to use , she gave it back to me , then we had some small talk about how does it feel to be free, then she gets overly excited and stuff.

Which to me is weird because her personality is a serious mature adult

Plus she does tease me about my handwriting and she hits me sometimes when I tease her

Then I asked this girl out a third time, she says no and , but only wants to be friends because I don't have any relationship experience and communication experience, but on that day , we had an argument about lack of communication between us and that it wouldn't make sense to even go on a date because we wouldn't have nothing to talk about and then she told me to leave her alone, we haven't spoken ever since then but she recently tried to speak to me one week after she said that . Asking me about my holiday but I didn't respond back. So I was wondering should I leave her alone or tell this:

Honestly , your right that I have no real experience but that doesn't actually mean that mistakes are going to be made.

Well everyone has to be new at some point in time , being new means that it is necessarily going to be a challenge, but it could be something wonderful

Look we love each others company and you can't look at recent stressful times to not go out and be with me

This is what I want to tell her but I want your opinion first?

I THINK SHE WAS LEADING ME ON BUT I Don't KNOW , I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO GET OVER HER NOW?

Homegirl 50
Jun 9, 2012, 07:07 PM
I don't think she was leading you on, I think you misunderstood her intentions. You can tell her how you feel, you have nothing to lose.

ilovearsenal
Jun 11, 2012, 11:51 AM
This isn't the full story , I think she was interested but now after some argument between you too she isn't