NicoloDavi
Jun 9, 2012, 03:46 PM
My girlfriend just broke up with me, she wants space but said she still loves me, it happened very oddly.
So here’s the deal, I was just at my girlfriend house last weekend. She’s a few hours away from me so I stayed the weekend and all to me seemed great. I left Monday to go home and the I love yous and miss yous were flying. I texted and called the next morning like I always do and I knew something was wrong in the way she responded to me. Later that day she called me crying wanting space and broke up with me. She said she loved me but didn't want me to reach out to her and that she was unhappy with herself, her life and that she thought I was reason.
Now I have my short coming and I know I have made mistakes through my stubbornness and small arguments with her but I always made things right (I thought). So right now I’m trying to respect her wish and give her space but I’m just really confused on the issue. One day its I love you drive safe I miss you already and the next it’s I’m unhappy and want to break up. We were together for about 11 months, 1 year in July. We are college students I’m 21 she’s 19 (I understand the she’s young stuff when trying to understand her). As of right now I hoping to hear from her in a few weeks and if not I'll reach out with a simple, none evasive "Hey, I have been thinking about you a lot and wanted to see how you were" but I could really use some advice or criticism.
She has made comments about how she’s always the one to cave and agree with me when I’m saying something even when she doesn’t agree. I do admit I was not the most respectful person at times and I pushed my opinion too much telling her she was wrong rather than saying I disagree with you like she did to me so many times. Over all though I am aware of my short comings and I work every day of my life to better myself. I just want her back, I’m truly in love with her and I want to do whatever I need to for another chance to prove that and have a good relationship again.
So here’s the deal, I was just at my girlfriend house last weekend. She’s a few hours away from me so I stayed the weekend and all to me seemed great. I left Monday to go home and the I love yous and miss yous were flying. I texted and called the next morning like I always do and I knew something was wrong in the way she responded to me. Later that day she called me crying wanting space and broke up with me. She said she loved me but didn't want me to reach out to her and that she was unhappy with herself, her life and that she thought I was reason.
Now I have my short coming and I know I have made mistakes through my stubbornness and small arguments with her but I always made things right (I thought). So right now I’m trying to respect her wish and give her space but I’m just really confused on the issue. One day its I love you drive safe I miss you already and the next it’s I’m unhappy and want to break up. We were together for about 11 months, 1 year in July. We are college students I’m 21 she’s 19 (I understand the she’s young stuff when trying to understand her). As of right now I hoping to hear from her in a few weeks and if not I'll reach out with a simple, none evasive "Hey, I have been thinking about you a lot and wanted to see how you were" but I could really use some advice or criticism.
She has made comments about how she’s always the one to cave and agree with me when I’m saying something even when she doesn’t agree. I do admit I was not the most respectful person at times and I pushed my opinion too much telling her she was wrong rather than saying I disagree with you like she did to me so many times. Over all though I am aware of my short comings and I work every day of my life to better myself. I just want her back, I’m truly in love with her and I want to do whatever I need to for another chance to prove that and have a good relationship again.