fallenhero
Jun 7, 2012, 05:27 AM
So I have been going out with my GF for like 2 years... We love each other dearly but lately there has been a weird vibe between us. Ever since the start of summer break from college, she's been going out a lot and drinking and all that. At first I didn't mind it because I know how stressful college can be. But the thing is she has been going out like every day and it really bothers me. I actually took a 1 week vacation from work just to spend with her but I never got to spend any time with her at all. That kind of didn't sit right with me as I couldn't even get just one week of her time from her 4 month break. But even after I started work again she keeps on going out all the time to bars and clubs and just drink with her "Girlfriends".
It got to the point where I can even text or call her and she wouldn't even answer me and that gets me really pissed because she never did that and I know she's sees that it's me calling but she doesn't answer.SO I started getting ideas in my mind that maybe she is out with somebody else and that is why she doesn't want to answer me or reply. And when I ask her if she's with somebody else she gets pissed at me and says that's the reason she doesn't answer me.
I love my GF but I feel like we just keep growing apart from each other by the days. I confronted her about it and she said that I'm being jealous and I'm holding her down that I don't want her to go out. We used to be together all the time and now it's like I can't even get to see her for like a whole week as she says she's going to sleep at her friend's house and that really get to me as I don't like that idea one bit. When we get to see each other we start arguing as I get to tell her that she is turning to somebody else and not the same person that I met 2 years ago.
She said she wanted a break from the relationship but she still talks to me. I honestly feel betrayed as I actually get to foot all her bills and what not and I can't even get to spend time with her anymore. Could someone please help me understand her as I don't know what is going on with her but my guts tell me something is going to happen but I don't know what it is and my guts have never lied to me before.
Has anybody had a similar experience and would like to help a brother out please.
It got to the point where I can even text or call her and she wouldn't even answer me and that gets me really pissed because she never did that and I know she's sees that it's me calling but she doesn't answer.SO I started getting ideas in my mind that maybe she is out with somebody else and that is why she doesn't want to answer me or reply. And when I ask her if she's with somebody else she gets pissed at me and says that's the reason she doesn't answer me.
I love my GF but I feel like we just keep growing apart from each other by the days. I confronted her about it and she said that I'm being jealous and I'm holding her down that I don't want her to go out. We used to be together all the time and now it's like I can't even get to see her for like a whole week as she says she's going to sleep at her friend's house and that really get to me as I don't like that idea one bit. When we get to see each other we start arguing as I get to tell her that she is turning to somebody else and not the same person that I met 2 years ago.
She said she wanted a break from the relationship but she still talks to me. I honestly feel betrayed as I actually get to foot all her bills and what not and I can't even get to spend time with her anymore. Could someone please help me understand her as I don't know what is going on with her but my guts tell me something is going to happen but I don't know what it is and my guts have never lied to me before.
Has anybody had a similar experience and would like to help a brother out please.