I was 15 when I first had my child I had a second child when I was 17 which was a girl. My relationship did not work out with my husband. After like 3 yrs I re- married to my husband my son was 5 and my daughter 3 I would work in the day and my husband in the night but the kids where in school most of the time and with my baby sitter.everything was perfect until my kids dad showed uo and took them for the weekend.. which I never agree but I didn't want them to think that I was going to keep them away from there dad. My kids left for the weeknd but by this time my son was 8 and my daughter 7 they come back on Sunday night and my daughter comes back saying that my husband touch her. I was shocked I Coulter believe it and right away I asked him to leave my husband told me he would never do that to her and that I knew that she was like his daughter. I talked to my daughter a lot of times and asked and asked her what happen,how did it happen and she kept giving me different stories like.. my dad touch my legg or my thigh he carrier me.. so I didn't really understand what she meant by that, I asked her okay did he open your leggs and but his fingers inside you.. she looked at me and said nooo ewww nooo he only touch my legg I didn't understand at that point. So I decided we were going to the police station so I'm walking with her then she tells me.. mom I'm sorry its not true.. when my dad drop me off he said tell your mom what we talked about. I was mad... sad.. and kind of happy because she didn't go through that.. after that I talked to my husband and he came back home. At the begging my daughter wouldn't talk to him at all but then little by little our lives came back to normal.now my daughter is 15 and the other day we were talking about child abuse and that came up again and she was crying then said it was true that my husband had touch her.. so I asked her the same questions again and she said that he had touch her in her leg she was sitting down in the couch and so was he and he said get up and take a shower and touch her leg. I told her by touching your legg it doesn't mean he touch you. Touching means in your private part that's touching maybe you did not feel comfortable by him dooing that. I could see in her face that she was more relax because I had explain to her that. But then again I don't know how to feel or what to do I'm confuse and scared how about if she just said that so I wouldn't be hurt. But then again she calls him dad and we have normal life's I'm always oberserving her she acts around him like nothing. My husband is very quite and he doesn't really spend time with us because he is always working and when he is at home he is always in the room. But she calls him daddy this daddy that. Like nothing happened she doesn't talk about it or nothing. I told her that I didn't know what to do that I don't want this to come back to me and I would regret having him come back but she says mom everything is okay everything has been clear out.. my dad never touch me like that but this is really affecting me and him its been 15 yrs of meeraige my children have only know him as a dad... please give me some adivse. He doesn't buy her anything either only the necessary that's it