Hi I am 24 and my boyfriend is 28, we have been together for about a year, before we were together we were roommates. I love him very very much and he says he feels the same. We don't really argue about anything, however there is one thing that is bothering me a lot. Of course its our sex life, at this point I feel as if I am lucky to get him to kiss me anywhere other than my lips or to touch me in any way. I am always starting things up and he gets aroused however we hardly ever end up having actual sex. Its usually I end up giving him oral and a hand job and that's it. When he falls asleep I finish myself off( he knows this). And to top it off if I have to beg him (literally) to touch me or caress me or to get on top . His excuse is always either that he is tired or he's hurting. Which makes no sense to me... currently he is unemployed and he doesn't do anything all day to be in pain or tired. I feel like crying all the time because I feel as though he is not in the least bit attracted to me physically. I do not know what to do. Please help!

Hi I am 24 and my bf is 28, we have been together for about a year, before we were together we were roommates. I love him very very much and he says he feels the same. We don't really argue about anything, however there is one thing that is bothering me a lot. Of course its our sex life, at this point I feel as if I am lucky to get him to kiss me anywhere other than my lips or to touch me in any way. I am always starting things up and he gets aroused however we hardly ever end up having actual sex. Its usually I end up giving him oral and a hand job and that's it. When he falls asleep I finish myself off( he knows this). And to top it off if I have to beg him (literally) to touch me or caress me or to get on top . His excuse is always either that he is tired or he's hurting. Which makes no sense to me...currently he is unemployed and he doesn't do anything all day to be in pain or tired. I feel like crying all the time because I feel as though he is not in the least bit attracted to me physically. I do not know what to do. Please help!Being unemployed and having trouble finding work.. is a real libido killer for a guy.