We are both juniors in high school. Before you judge this high school relationship, I have had 2 other relationships before and I stopped for 2 years. She is different though, I think she's amazing. We met about 2-3 months ago, we shared a psychology class. We didn't talk much, but I asked for her number because I thought she was cute. We talked a little bit here and there for a while, then I realised she had a boyfriend, a sophomore in college.

We started talking more and compliments started coming out easier. She said I "got her thinking differently". We both went to prom with people we didn't care for. Me with a friend, and her with her boyfriend. We made plans for summer and everything, but she said she was a little crazy. She broke up with her boyfriend after a while and kept it on the down low. I am very shy and somewhat timid, but she said I was handsome and perfect, and we sent "<3"'s all the time through text.

I started skipping my homebase period to go to hers and hang out with her. I also had a study hall, which I skipped to go to her lunch period, also to spend time with her. She didn't want to go too fast, and she didn't want to publicly flirt because she didn't want people to gossip. At an assembly we had, we sat next to each other, and descretely broke th touch barrier. We sat at lunch, but that's all we did.

I was too shy to talk, but we sometimes turned and smiled at each other. We kept suspicion down and didn't touch each other or anything. We went to a movie where we finally held hands and cuddled, then she came to my house a week later. We talked and cuddled and watched TV. My mother made dinner, but it wasn't that good, haha. MAybe a bad first impression. She left for 5 days to go to a leadership training thing about 3 weeks ago.

She asked me before if I get jealous easily because there are guys at the leadership thing, but told me that it's nothing to worry about and that they aren't special. She returned and wasn't very talkative, I texted her a bit but she didn't respond much. She sent short messages. About a week ago, she tells me that she found someone at her leadership thing, and that we should just remain good friends. The guy is the same type of boyfriend that she left for me. A freshman in college.

I really like her and would like a chance with her, but I don't know what to do. I talked to her friend for a bit, asking to talk sense back into her and to get some support, maybe her head wasn't on straight. I mean, she met the guy 2 weeks ago! Now she know I got help from her friend, and wants me to stop talking about it. Out of her business is where I should stay. Summer is coming up and she has a lot of stuff on her mind. I can't go back and change anything, but I want to start over with her. We are still friends, but she says she lost interest. Did I overkill it by hanging out with her too much? I mean, everyday, 2 periods for about a month. Should I cut all ties with her and talk to her again after summer? Will she ever like me again? She said she isn't into me, and that I should love someone else, but I know she's saying that out of confusion. I really need help and it hurts me to resort to the internet to solve my problem... I need to impress her again like I did in the first place. :(

She caught you on the hook and held you in a fish tank, and when she went out and caught a bigger fish she let you go and so on and so fourth. She'll do that until the day she matures, or gets knocked up.

Move on, cut all ties forever and let it be. She seems to fall in and out of lust way too easily. Why would you even feel the need to impress a girl who would just run to the next best in a heartbeat. Don't make someone a priority in your life, if you're only an option in theirs.