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amitdas144
Jun 4, 2012, 11:07 PM
I am a hindu religion boy . I love a muslim religion girl . Now my family doesn't accept this relationship.I love my parents so much. Unfortunately my mother was died on 2^nd may 12. My relatives blame to me that my mother passed away for me.they tell me that you are not a educated person otherwise you can't do that but I believed that education teachs us to kill our superstation.my father told me that if you have further connection with the girl u will leave my house.I am student of M.A in history. Still now I can't get job. I don't have any interest on my family assets.my father pressurised me to break the relationship and also take some unsocial steps. But I can't leave the girl because both are loved so much.I believe that best bonding forms between two hearts by better understanding and it is also happened to me.standing on current position what should I do if I maintain a equilibrium position between my love and family?

C0bra_M3nace
Jun 5, 2012, 04:08 AM
In a situation such as this, balance between love and family is hard to come by. It must be earned, and earning it all depends on the person doing the unbalancing. In this case, it's your father. I don't know you father personally, so I don't know what kind of heart he has, or how deep his religion and superstitions are, but the only way to balance this is to outweigh your fathers heart and show him how you truly feel. How to do that is up to you, because you know him better than I do, but letting your father run your life is no way to live, no matter the religion or race.