I am 20years old.. my periods are late by 10 days almost.. and I never had sex with any guy.. but I usually hug my elder brother tightly out of love.. he is 6 years elder to me..
I was very stressed 3 months ago.. since then my periods are quite irregular.. but it had never been so late..
I am very afraid... can I be pregnant from my real brother?? please do help me..

No you cannot get pregnant from hugging anyone. You have to have sexual intercourse with someone in order to become pregnant. Because of the fact that you have been stressed can result in missed periods. If you are not sexually active there is absolutely nothing to worry about as far as being pregnant. If you are sexually active and you think there is a possibility of pregnancy, take a simple home pregnancy test. But because you are 3 months late it may be a good idea to go into see a doctor as missing a period for 3 months is quite a long time. Your doctor may suggest birth control to help regulate your periods. Try to relax and best of luck.

Is this a real question?

You say you haven't had sex with any guy yet you are wondering if you're pregnant from your brother... come on now. Really?

You're 20?

Do you know how babies are conceived? You should at the age of 20.

You need to have sex in order to get pregnant. Hugging won't do it, no matter how tightly you hug.

If your brother's penis didn't enter your vagina, you can't get pregnant. If it did, and you're just too afraid to tell us, and call it hugging instead, then yes, pregnancy is possible. But from hugging alone, no.

OK thanks.. but now I am almost 11 days late for my periods.. I am worried.. is it normal to have periods after 2 weeks of delay?
For how long should I wait for my periods? Or should I consult a doctor?

If you're under going stress than that is a possibility of a late or missed period. The best thing to do is just to contact your doctor...

Some people even miss a period every now and then, or they may be weeks late, It never hurts being checked.

There are dozens of reasons a period can be off.

ok thanks..but now i am almost 11 days late for my periods..i am worried..is it normal to have periods after 2 weeks of delay?
For how long should i wait for my periods? or should i consult a doctor?

Every woman on Earth has an off month once in a while.

If you're not sexually active, then why are you worried about this? Is there something you're not telling us?

Actually when I hugged my brother I felt little wet on my slacks..
I am afraid it was due to his semen.. he was also wearing shorts.. but we hugged..
At that moment I ignored it because I thought it to be the white discharge..
That is why I am worried.. I read it somewhere that sperms can swim across the clothes.. and my periods are delayed by 12 days now..
It is quite embarrassing.. please help me out..

I am sorry either you are not really 20 ( sorry you are sounding more and more 14)
Or you are not being honest about the story.

He would have had to rub exactly in the right spot, and you don't do that standing up hugging.

So at 20, go to your doctor or local health care and get checked and get educated on sex.

Actually when i hugged my brother i felt little wet on my slacks..
i am afraid it was due to his semen..he was also wearing shorts..but we jus hugged..


Why do I feel like you're just messing with us?

Ok, so you hugged and somehow his semen came out, did it? Sorry, not just from hugging.

How about the rest of this crazy story?

Actually when i hugged my brother i felt little wet on my slacks..
i am afraid it was due to his semen..he was also wearing shorts..but we jus hugged..
at that moment i ignored it because i thought it to be the white discharge..
that is why i am worried..i read it somewhere that sperms can swim across the clothes..and my periods are delayed by 12 days now..
it is quite embarrasing..please help me out..

Seriously?

Okay, either tell us the truth, or admit that you're not 20, because I've never met anyone at the age of 20 that thought that hugging someone, even if that someone ejaculated, while fully clothed, could cause pregnancy.

Do you know how pregnancy works? Not crap you've read on the internet, but the truth?

You cannot get pregnant from the way you described. You were both fully clothed, hugged, and even if he did ejaculate, there's simply no way that you could get pregnant this way. None, unless it was a naked hug and his penis entered your vagina. But that's not what you've stated in any of your posts.

So you're either lying to us, not telling us the whole story, or you're the most naïve 20 year old on this Earth.

Sorry for being harsh, but I don't know what more you want from us. You claim to be a virgin. You claim that all your brother and you did was hug. He may have ejaculated. None of this points to possible pregnancy, and if what you've told us is the truth, then no, you're not pregnant, but you really need to educate yourself about sex, because your lack of knowledge is scary.

Did anyone consider that the OP may be from a culture where sex is never discussed? That it is taboo to even talk about sex?

Did anyone consider that the OP may be from a culture where sex is never discussed? That it is taboo to even talk about sex?

I have considered that, but the fact that she knows that sperm causes sex, makes me question it.

My gut is saying that we're either being messed with, or this is a child that has no idea what sex is.

Fact is, she has internet access. She found this site. If she can find this site, then she can find tons of links talking about sex, and how pregnancy happens. There are great sites out there, that discuss everything she'd need to know. She's obviously not computer illiterate.

This is just my gut feeling though. Either way, her question has been answered numerous times, yet she's still worried that she could be pregnant from hugging her brother.