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LEO7911
Jun 4, 2012, 08:42 AM
Moved and edited to its own question.


Before we started "talking" we both stated that we didn't want a relationship. Then while we we're talking we started calling each other baby and babe and then she just stopped. I went to her party and asked her what was going on and if she saw us together in the future, and she said yeah "I like you I just don't want to be with anyone right now that's why I stopped with the names I didn't want to lead you on"

But see that's what I didn't understand why would she say that if she supposedly likes me. Now we text and all but its not the same. I felt a vibe that she wasn't interested so I asked her again and she told me the same thing " I like you but don't want to be with anyone". What should I do, supposedly her parents don't let her go out to often! Should I wait or move on or I'm liking what that one guy said in another post here, just be friends with her.

I was going to actually ask her if it was okay if I took other girls on dates since she never had the time or permission, but my friend told me that was very stupid of me which I'm starting to see why. What do you think of my situation guys?

talaniman
Jun 4, 2012, 11:03 AM
Since you cannot get what you want, a dating/girlfriend type of thing, then stay friends and seek romance elsewhere. There is no such thing as "exclusive" friends, so do your own thing that you always have done with others, besides her.

Be aware that things have changed between you, at least YOU feel they have because now you know she isn't going to date you, or be your girl friend, so of course the vibe is different. Before you had hope, now you don't.

Homegirl 50
Jun 4, 2012, 12:12 PM
The girl likes you but does not want to date you. You are an unattached guy. Do your thing.

C0bra_M3nace
Jun 4, 2012, 12:24 PM
Move on, she's clearly not ready. Why waste your time when she may not even be the right girl, you never had a chance to see, and you may never.