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Well from your screen name it sounds like you're 22, so age isn't as big of a factor as if you were say 16. It's pretty easy to make arguments for both sides if you ignore the weirdness of family relations, thank God she isn't actually your sister. However, it seems pretty obvious that she has slept around with other guys and that you aren't comfortable with that. If you're willing to let that go and do what's in your heart, then do it. Have you ever considered that your family might be happy that you're going out with such a close family friend? Then again if you guys break up or she rejects you, it could make things weird for the family. But if you think you two really are a great match, that your parents will approve, and that you won't break up with her over her past, then do it. But if and only if you can fulfill 2/3 of those conditions.

Well from your screen name it sounds like you're 22, so age isn't as big of a factor as if you were say 16.

If only you had taken the time to read his post...


.i dont know what to do im still a teenager

Your advice to "go for it" is a little out of place now, isn't it?



Anyway, to the OP... at this point, I think you should just try and forget her and go for someone closer to your age. You have plenty of time and after you find someone, you will soon forget about her. Well, maybe not forget but she may not seem as important to you as she does now.