View Full Version : My boyfriend wants a break?
mindy12
Jun 2, 2012, 06:56 PM
Does a break really help? My boyfriend said he loves me but we need a break because we fight too much. Which is true we fight almost everyday but we have both been working on it so its been quite good but we just end upp argueing if he goes out so the other night we had a huge fight and he said he wants a break and we need a serious talk in a couple of days. Will he end upp missing me? He's a stright up guy so I know he doesn't want a break to go get with other girls because he would just tell me if he was that's the 1 thing he's always onst I just want to know what's going on with him he has anger issues that's for sure he bottles all his feelings up and it just turns into anger. I need some advice ? I'm hurting really bad at the moment I'm trying my hardist not too call or text him I'm giving him the space he wanted. WILL HE COME BACK? Or doo breaks usually end up finishing for good. I love him I don't want too let go. Some advice please?
Joshlover
Jun 2, 2012, 07:01 PM
Well if he says you should take a break let him take one and if you go your separate ways so be it but if you stay together it was meant to be
Wondergirl
Jun 2, 2012, 07:08 PM
"Breaks" are not a good idea.
Homegirl 50
Jun 2, 2012, 07:10 PM
How long have you two been together and what is it you are fighting about all the time. Maybe you two are not a match.
Take the break and then time will tell.
mindy12
Jun 2, 2012, 07:21 PM
We have been together for a year known each other for longer. He has anger issues so he gets angry easily and it just turns into a big argument, sometimes its over guys emailing me to meet up with them not that I talk back to them because I'm loyal, his jouloucey kicks in and we fight, we fight because he goes out drinking heaps with his friends. But when were not fighting were really good and both so happy together. We had a fight the other day and he called us on a break because one of his friends told him that I was out spoted with other guys kissing them but that was not true they just keep stirring. He's grown up with a hard life so I can see where he gets his anger from his whole fams have anger issues. I just don't want to lose him. I just think we need to get away because when were away from this place the big city, were almost perfect.
Homegirl 50
Jun 2, 2012, 07:32 PM
Jealousy issues are not fun to deal with and anger issues can be volatile. There appears to be no boundaries if he is looking at your emails. I guess the break is a good thing. Give the two of you time to see if you want to keep this drama up.