Hi People. I want to know how I can deal with thoughts of my two year relationship after so much augments broke cause I called it off. I expected him to prove his love by coming back. After a month I noticed he didn't want it, neither did I so We agreed to come back, only for me to discover he made out with a girl which he claims I don't know and has not had contact with her after that.

I know he had every right to do what ever he wanted but still let him know I forgive him. Also for the past two years we have both not had sex. Please help me out its really difficult for me.

You either talk and resolve your differences, including the lack of sex, or go separate ways and have nothing to do with each other. Doesn't sound like you were much of a couple any ways and unless distance is the reason for a lack of sex, then you both were obviously not on the same page, and when the minds, bodies, and souls of partners cannot agree, there is NO relationship any way.

From these relationships we move on and give ourselves time to recover from them.

I just want ti say the no sex part is based on religious beliefs I am a christian.Hence We both agreed on it to be kept till We get married.

So what's the arguing about, and why play games of make up break up to test someone? Could it be you are more committed to making things work? Or he has no intentions of playing a game, and resents you for it? Maybe now he is playing his own game, and not forgiving you.

Let the dust settle and see if you can talk, and please, no more games. They have ways of back firing.