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kadu_neil
Jun 2, 2012, 03:57 AM
After sexual intercourse, my wife vomits most of the times, she likes sex but sometimes feel dirty, we have never done oral sex. Now I am very afraid to have sex as I don't want to make her vomit again and again... PLEASE HELP... thank you in advance, please mail me if any other details are required.

MeganMoo13
Jun 3, 2012, 05:07 PM
That's unusual... does she know why? Like does it hurt her in anyway? Is it a mental thing, like you said she feels dirty? Maybe she could go to theropy/cousilling, as that's not healthy for her, or the relationship. Yous shouldn't feel like its "dirty" or wrong.

odinn7
Jun 3, 2012, 05:09 PM
It's not clear from your question whether it is a physical problem or mental one. I am guessing it's mental since you say she feels dirty. If this is the case, the only solution here is to get some therapy for her and find out why she feels this way.

Fr_Chuck
Jun 3, 2012, 07:03 PM
Yes, if she is felling dirty, then it is something from her past, either abuse when she was younger, or some incorrect moral or religious teaching.

Sex ( for husband and wife) should be fun, it should be anything they both feel good about, role playing, costumes what ever.