My girl of 5 years, we have two kids together, engaged. We were suppose to get married in a couple months. We got into a big fight and now she need space, we haven't had sex in over a month she wanted to separate so I left the house but every time I leave, I come back its like the same old us but no sex what's the deal?

Why does she want to separate?

It might be over, and you've not clued into it. It won't work if only one of your want to be together.

Have you asked her? At this point we can only offer conjecture; shooting in the dark. Some good old fashioned communication is needed.

Well every time I leave she finds a way for me to come spend the night and that turn into days but no sex. We are getting along fine but no sex. And every time I bring the issue up about us or sex she get upset and say stop trying to force it. She walks around in the sexy night shorts, that drives me crazy after over a month of nothing. My Birthday just passed nothing, she even went out of town didn't even give it to me before she left. I wonder if she knows that this is not solving anything. What's going on. Is she trying to gain control of me , punish me somehow, or just is simply being mean. Is she saving herself for another guy I don't know

She "finds a way for you to come spend the night"? You can't say no?

If you are tired of the game playing, being teased, break off the relationship. If you need/want sex and she doesn't - break off the relationship.

Only she knows why she behaves like this. Ask her.

EDIT: It would be helpful if you always told the same story on AMHD - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/problem-666265.html

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