All my life I have been amazed by death. I envy how they are so peaceful now. I would love to be abled to talk to a spirit/ghost of the deceased! And I love graveyards--that's where I want to have my wedding, or maybe just live there :P



Help please and no rude comments/answers!



Sr13

Why do you believe they are so "peaceful" and not tormented and in pain

Why do you believe they are so "peaceful" and not tormented and in pain


Well they don't have to worry about someone teasing them because they're bisexual. They don't have to worry about anything!. Death is much easier than Life!


And so peaceful...

How do you know?

So that's your real concern -- getting teased.

How do you know?

So that's your real concern -- getting teased.

How do I know? Dreams... And well look at them they look so... Happy!

Being teased is an issue...

But that is not the biggest concern...

Dreams are only your own unconscious at work and not reality.

You did bring up the teased thing, so speaking of the unconscious...

Dreams are only your own unconscious at work and not reality.

You did bring up the teased thing, so speaking of the unconscious....

What's with you? :/

You cannot contact the deceased.

You cannot contact the deceased.


Why not? They are the only ones who will listen to me... Unlike most

They have moved on past this life and no longer are interested in us. They have bigger fish to fry.

They have moved on past this life and no longer are interested in us. They have bigger fish to fry.


Wow... Well okay. If I can't contact them now... Maybe I should join them... Then I will be happy with them and also peaceful :D

And you can talk to us, we WILL listen. Between all the people on this board I bet we have eons of life experience.
So shoot... what do want to talk to deceased about that you can't tell us?

And you can talk to us, we WILL listen. Between all the people on this board I bet we have eons of life experience.
So shoot......what do want to talk to deceased about that you can't tell us?

I don't know... Some people on this site aren't too nice...

But thanks :D

RebelAgainstAll

It's hard to read people when you can't talk to them face to face, I think the people here are very nice. But I have read many more of their posts than you have.
And brushing me off, is that nice?
BTW, guessing from your username, you're a little defiant maybe?
I'm still listening...

Why do you believe dead people are the only ones listening? Actually this site is full of grest listeners... give us a try!

It's hard to read people when you can't talk to them face to face, I think the people here are very nice. But I have read many more of their posts than you have.
And brushing me off, is that nice?
BTW, guessing from your username, you're a little defiant maybe?
I'm still listening.....


Yes I am rebellious...

I didn't brush you off!

Why do you believe dead people are the only ones listening? Actually this site is full of grest listeners....give us a try!

Because if I ask a question... They always reply. And I know you guys may think I'm psycho... but I can actually feel them when we talk

So... what exactly do you want to say to a dead person? Obviously you are looking for an audience... so speak up... pretend were all dead here.

Ah, I thought so.
Ok, we'll not call it brushing me off then, see how easy it is to misread something?
And Haunting Helper just poked his head in here, he is a great listener.
Don't give up on us just yet.

So....what exactly do you want to say to a dead person? Obviously you are looking for an audience.....so speak up...pretend were all dead here.

I usually ask them to take me with them... So I can be happy too

So....what exactly do you want to say to a dead person? Obviously you are looking for an audience.....so speak up...pretend were all dead here.

I usually ask them to take me with them... So I can be happy too


And I don't NEED an audience... Thanks
Anyway...

Why are you not happy?

Why are you not happy?

Why should I be happy? My life is a living H E L L!

Again... why do you assume they are happy? Live humans can be deceitful... what makes you think spirits are pure and honest?

Again...why do you assume they are happy? Live humans can be deceitful...what makes you think spirits are pure and honest?

Well I know it's better than living on this irritating sphere of fire...

Why? Help us out here... why is living hell? There are many people out there and on this site that have dealt with their own issues. Don't think that nobody understands you.

Why? Help us out here...why is living hell? There are many people out there and on this site that have dealt with their own issues. Don't think that nobody understands you.


I don't even understand my damn self!

I just know that I am 13 and I am very depressed and angry. And that I have chronic insomnia!

Your answers are very cryptic, it's difficult to give you constructive feedback when you respond the way you do.
There are many people who think their lives are living hells, but for many different reasons.
We are trying to help you, but you're not letting us.

Finally an answer we can work a little with.
Sleep deprivation can cause a multitude of problems, and you seem to have some issues as it is.
Have you spoken with your doctor about your inability to sleep?
What have yo tried to get yourself to sleep at night already?

Let's get down to details. Who lives with you at your house? Tell us about them. Don't mention names; keep it generic. How many people? Pets?

Your life is hell because you are spiritually empty. You don't find fulfillment in much of anything. I'm sure being teased and your sexual orientations don't help either. The fact is that you are unhappy because you haven't connected with your purpose in life.

On one hand, you're only 13... and have a LOT of growing up to do. But also, at 13, you already recognize the need for deeper things... something most sdults still do not recognize. Kudos on that!

Your answers are very cryptic, it's difficult to give you constructive feedback when you respond the way you do.
There are many people who think their lives are living hells, but for many different reasons.
We are trying to help you, but you're not letting us.

Well I'm so sorry :P

I have 6 sisters and 5 brothers--im the eldest-- and we live in a 2 bedroom house. So that brings some stress. My family teases because I am bisexual. I am confused about my religion. Am I an atheist or christian? I feel like my God hates me... I feel like the entire world--including me--wants me dead! (im crying now) I'm just confused. I want help. I need it! But... I am not so good with taking advice and I know that is very stupid of me... I know I'm stupid and ugly... No need to remind me...


I just want to die

Your life is hell because you are spiritually empty. You don't find fulfillment in much of anything. I'm sure being teased and your sexual orientations don't help either. The fact is that you are unhappy because you haven't connected with your purpose in life.

On one hand, you're only 13...and have a LOT of growing up to do. But also, at 13, you already recognize the need for deeper things....something most sdults still do not recognize. Kudos on that!

I am a very mature in the mind for a 13 year old female.

And you're right... I feel disconnected from everything... even me. And then I feel very lonely and I began to cry...

I just know I have something that I need to give the world... But the world wants me dead. She hates me

You're very expressive and poetic. Do you write poetry?

You're very expressive and poetic. Do you write poetry?

Now you want to say something decent :P

And yes... I write poetry

So many people in one house, I can imagine that is very difficult to deal with.
Honestly I don't know that I could.
I read in another post that you are under a doctors care, correct.
So someone cares that you get the help that you need, who saw the need to seek care for you?

So many people in one house, I can imagine that is very difficult to deal with.
Honestly I don't know that I could.
I read in another post that you are under a doctors care, correct.
So someone cares that you get the help that you need, who saw the need to seek care for you?


No I don't think I am in doctors care. I was supposed to be admitted into a mental hospital but didn't go... I was afraid

Aren't you on meds and seeing a therapist or a psychiatrist or someone in the mental health field?
I think I read that somewhere.
Why were you afraid?
Poetry is a good outlet, I do that myself, and have for many years.

How did you get out of going to a mental hospital at the age of 13?

well im so sorry :P

i have 6 sisters and 5 brothers--im the eldest-- and we live in a 2 bedroom house. So that brings some stress. My family teases because i am bisexual. I am confused about my religion. Am i an atheist or christian? I feel like my God hates me... I feel like the entire world--including me--wants me dead! (im crying now) im just confused. I want help. I need it! But... I am not so good with taking advice and i know that is very stupid of me... I know im stupid and ugly... No need to remind me...


i just wanna die

Besides the teasing, which is uncalled for... why do you feel like the world wants you dead? What exactly makes you feel that God hates you?

You want help? It's out there... and myself and others are trying to offer it to you right now.

I can tell you right now I have been in a very similar situation. I was torn between trying to believe in a God that felt so distant to me. It took me some time to realize there is a difference between believing in God and actually being IN God. Did you know the bible tells us that even demons believe in God... and tremble! You see, believing in Him does not solve everything... it's learning to rely on Him and TRUST Him. When Jesus said that God so loved the WORLD (you're included in that just as I am) that He gave His only son... that means God has nothing but love and affection towards you. So you're not stupid, you're not ugly, and you are worth the very life of Jesus Christ.

If you really want to know what is going on right now... you are believing every hook, line and sinker the Devil is throwing at you... I can see this very clearly because I have been there... twice... and I know it is hell. It is the most lonely and hopeless place one can be... and I'm here to tell you there is hope, because I'm still here.

Aren't you on meds and seeing a therapist or a psychiatrist or someone in the mental health field?
I think I read that somewhere.
Why were you afraid?
Poetry is a good outlet, I do that myself, and have for many years.


Oh yes I am...

I am afraid that the world will think I'm crazy :/

If you had any idea how many kids and teens and adults are taking meds for one reason or another... You are one among millions.

[QUOTE=Wondergirl;3137278]If you had any idea how many kids and teens and adults are taking meds for one reason or another... You are one among millions.[/QUOTE}

I know that... Im not that stupid :)

That's why I feel so lonely all the time :(

Lonely? In the company of millions?

Sinister - did you get a chance to read post #40?

Forgive me if I disappear, my internet is really acting up.
I think the world we live now can be overwhelming, even to young people.
I have been overwhelmed numerous times myself and like you felt there was no out.
I am 48 now and here trying to help you, imagine that.
Have you discussed with your doctor your feelings even though you are on meds.
You do take them like you are supposed to right?
Sometimes medications may need to be changed or adjusted before you find what works for you.
And as far as what people think about going into the hospital, so what.
If it enables you deal with the problems you are having, so what.
They don't live your life, they are not tormented by their own thoughts daily or feel your stress.
Personally I wouldn't care what they thought, if they wouldn't want to see you succeed in becoming a healthy individual don't worry with them.
Worry about you, you are the important one right now.

Sinister - did you get a chance to read post #40?

And yes, you must surely read post 40

this is exactly why i wanna die... Now you hate me and i honestly don't understand what i did wrong! My therapist left because i lied on him so i wouldn't have to go to a mental hospital... And he got in Alot of trouble... But he hurt me first... He stabbed me in the back first....


so i needed to get me revenge...


I ALWAYS GET MY REVENGE NO MATTER THE OUTCOME!!

I took this from another one of your posts in another thread.
This bothers me.
I'm still on your side here, I still think you need help.
So take this for what it is worth OK?
IF this really happened and your therapist left a job because you lied, I can only imagine what the lie was, it must have been a big one.
You and I already agreed that one aspect of your personality is defiance, this was absolutely the wrong place to use that defiance, it would be better used on the people who do not want to see you do better. Not by emotionally harming or taking revenge, that is not defiance that is just mean spiritedness.
You defy them by getting the help that you need and not bucking the people who try to help you. By showing everyone that is laughing and making fun that YOU can be the best you possible no matter what they think.
This man was trying to help you and you set about to jeopardize his professional reputation and career, not to mention his means of supporting himself and his family.
That is not acceptable and you need to make that right.
Let me tell you who I am, I am not a counselor not a therapist, I am a mother who's own daughter not so long ago was 13 and I am a former 13 year old girl myself.
I am someone who has suffered from bouts of depression throughout my life.
My revenge was proving to the people around me some of whom had a hand in my depressive states that I could over come and remain a sane productive member of society who refused to hate or look down on those who chose not to understand my personal predicament.
Now, I hope you'll come back and talk to us if you truly want to be helped, not specifically by me, but by others here who have I know have valuable and insightful things that you need to hear.
Like I said, still on your side, I'm not bashing you, because I realize that at times we don't think about consequences. But consequences are a part of everything you do.

I took this from another one of your posts in another thread.
This bothers me.
I'm still on your side here, I still think you need help.
So take this for what it is worth ok?
IF this really happened and your therapist left a job because you lied, I can only imagine what the lie was, it must have been a big one.
You and I already agreed that one aspect of your personality is defiance, this was absolutely the wrong place to use that defiance, it would be better used on the people who do not want to see you do better. Not by emotionally harming or taking revenge, that is not defiance that is just mean spiritedness.
You defy them by getting the help that you need and not bucking the people who try to help you. by showing everyone that is laughing and making fun that YOU can be the best you possible no matter what they think.
This man was trying to help you and you set about to jeopardize his professional reputation and career, not to mention his means of supporting himself and his family.
That is not acceptable and you need to make that right.
Let me tell you who I am, I am not a counselor not a therapist, I am a mother who's own daughter not so long ago was 13 and I am a former 13 year old girl myself.
I am someone who has suffered from bouts of depression throughout my life.
My revenge was proving to the people around me some of whom had a hand in my depressive states that I could over come and remain a sane productive member of society who refused to hate or look down on those who chose not to understand my personal predicament.
Now, I hope you'll come back and talk to us if you truly want to be helped, not specifically by me, but by others here who have I know have valuable and insightful things that you need to hear.
Like I said, still on your side, I'm not bashing you, because I realize that at times we don't think about consequences. But consequences are a part of everything you do.


Thanks I guess??

I took this from another one of your posts in another thread.
This bothers me.
I'm still on your side here, I still think you need help.
So take this for what it is worth ok?
IF this really happened and your therapist left a job because you lied, I can only imagine what the lie was, it must have been a big one.
You and I already agreed that one aspect of your personality is defiance, this was absolutely the wrong place to use that defiance, it would be better used on the people who do not want to see you do better. Not by emotionally harming or taking revenge, that is not defiance that is just mean spiritedness.
You defy them by getting the help that you need and not bucking the people who try to help you. by showing everyone that is laughing and making fun that YOU can be the best you possible no matter what they think.
This man was trying to help you and you set about to jeopardize his professional reputation and career, not to mention his means of supporting himself and his family.
That is not acceptable and you need to make that right.
Let me tell you who I am, I am not a counselor not a therapist, I am a mother who's own daughter not so long ago was 13 and I am a former 13 year old girl myself.
I am someone who has suffered from bouts of depression throughout my life.
My revenge was proving to the people around me some of whom had a hand in my depressive states that I could over come and remain a sane productive member of society who refused to hate or look down on those who chose not to understand my personal predicament.
Now, I hope you'll come back and talk to us if you truly want to be helped, not specifically by me, but by others here who have I know have valuable and insightful things that you need to hear.
Like I said, still on your side, I'm not bashing you, because I realize that at times we don't think about consequences. But consequences are a part of everything you do.

Everyone answering, I urge you to read all the posts this OP has posted.

In my opinion, this is a troll. I have yet to meet someone that comes here for advice, and then calls one of the nicest people on this site "rude", and dishes out reddies to her.

I'd bet money that this is just a troll. In fact, I'm taking bets now. :)

If she isn't just a troll, can learn to be respectful of the members on this site, the people volunteering their time to help, reads the rules she agreed to, then I'm more than willing to forgive and forget, but at this time this poster is on my radar. She either smartens up, or I'm reporting her.

If she really needs help, then she has to learn to be receptive to help. Otherwise, why bother asking? Why diss the people offering their time, for free, if you really want help?

Everything written so far indicates a troll, or someone too disturbed for us to help.